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Establishing Boundaries . . . Confining the Clutter . . . Whatever You Want to Call It

May 17, 2010 By Dana White 37 Comments

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At a mom’s group meeting several years ago I heard a speaker on home organization say that you should make a rule to remove one old thing every time you bring something new into your home.

Everyone else nodded knowingly.

I had absolutely no concept what she was talking about.

I’ve finally figured out why I didn’t get it.

In my house at the time, and up until I started this blog, there was so much clutter that swapping one for one wouldn’t have had any effect. If your drawers won’t close because you have 20 more pairs of shorts than you need, why would you remove one when you got another pair? 21-too-many looks about the same as 20-too-many, so you might as well just shove a little harder and keep them all.

I got out my summer clothes last week. As I designated one of my drawers for my shorts (a new concept for me), I realized that I have some really ugly shorts. Old, mommy-waisted, not-exactly-the-right-size-anymore shorts. But I also don’t have the money to go buy myself a new wardrobe – one of the mixed blessings of having lost some weight. So, I decided that as I find new shorts – on sale or at garage sales, I’ll swap them out one for one. And suddenly this tried and true organizing concept made sense. It only works if you have what you need, not what you need . . . plus 35 more.

I’ve also been thinking of applying the same concept to my cookbook stash. I read a while back on Orgjunkie.com that she likes having a shelf designated for certain things, so she can be conscious of how much she has. I’d been thinking about my cookbooks since reading that.

I have a cookbook shelf in my pantry. But I also had a shelf-thingy on top of my fridge with more cookbooks “on” it.

It was a pretty lousy little shelf, so the cookbooks fell off (obviously) and it was in an incredibly inconvenient spot. Since I’m not one to use cookbooks as regularly as I should, having to get on a chair to get to them made it even less likely that I would use them.

So I took everything off of the top of the fridge (including the pot that I debated removing pre-picture since it belongs to one of the three real-life people who read my blog, and I’ve had it for probably two years now, sitting up on the fridge so I’ll remember to take it back . . . . ).

I took the shelf out to the garage sale, and I windexed the ultra-nasty-probably-never-before-cleaned fridge top. Lest you think that no one can see up there, we do have a 6’7″ friend who comes over regularly. Seriously.

I replaced the pot, you know . . . so I’ll remember to give it back. Here’s the fridge top now.

I then picked out the cookbooks I wanted to keep and added them to my cookbook shelf in the pantry. I only had to purge a few from the shelf in order to make room.
I got rid of these:
And here’s my designated Cookbook Shelf:
I’m happy with the ones I was able to keep. I really like this concept, now that I finally get it. It doesn’t mean that I can never get any new cookbooks, it just means that I have a physical space to keep to. When I find a new one I love, it will be time to decide which old one I haven’t used.

I don’t have the room for 500 cookbooks, and I really don’t need 500 cookbooks, but with my excessive personality, I could easily end up with 500, filling up every shelf of the pantry and spilling out onto the floor and into boxes if I don’t set up boundaries.

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May 17, 2010 By Dana White 1 Comment

0shares 0 0 0Last night, we had a church group meet in our home, and someone brought a fabulous cheesy chicken enchilada casserole. A normal person might think to herself, “I should really get this recipe.” I thought to myself, “I should really use recipes more often.” I tend to be “creative” at the expense […]

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May 17, 2010 By Dana White 1 Comment

1share 1 0 0For Focus Check Friday, I declared that I was going to get back to my tangible Daily Checklist. You know, actually checking it off. Not just using my (completely unreliable) head. I resisted this today. The house looks nice. We had home-groups here last night, and things are picked up, cleared off […]

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I’m Keepin’ my Mannequin!

May 16, 2010 By Dana White 15 Comments

287shares 279 0 8 Last fall, when I painted the office/game room, I moved a lot of the big stuff out into the garage. That “big stuff” included my mannequin. I loved the room so much, that once it was painted I never brought the mannequin back in. It has stayed in the garage, slowly […]

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Avoidance – That’s ONE of my Problems . . .

May 14, 2010 By Dana White 10 Comments

0shares 0 0 0Last night was one of those. It was supposed to be our one night at home this week.  Supposed to be . . . before I was reminded that there was a Cub Scout meeting.  Supposed to be . . . before my 6yo’s coach decided to have a t-ball practice, because […]

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Daily Checklist – Back to the Chart

May 14, 2010 By Dana White 2 Comments

0shares 0 0 0Ok, I’m ready. I just (literally) dug out the chart with my non-negotiable tasks on it.  Now, I’m talking myself into getting up and making sure that I’ve really done all of these things before I start typing out my list.  I’m great at thinking “Surely I did that.”  8 minutes later […]

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Focus Check Friday – The Very First! Come Join In!

May 14, 2010 By Dana White 16 Comments

2shares 2 0 0It’s Focus Check Friday! Last week, I shared how the one thing that has made the biggest difference in cleaning up this mess has been . . . . focus. It’s easy for me to have selective vision, ignoring the mess and only seeing the fun stuff. But then the mess gets […]

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So . . . Underwear Drawers are for . . . . Underwear?

May 13, 2010 By Dana White 12 Comments

76shares 76 0 0Pre–filebox, I had huge paper-pile problems. I’m still amazed at how quickly a pile can/does appear if I don’t stay on top of every SINGLE paper that enters this house. One of my main problems was that although I didn’t want to sort through papers immediately, I did recognize that there were […]

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In Survival Mode

May 12, 2010 By Dana White 5 Comments

134shares 24 0 110 This week has been so much better than last week. Still, it’s a little wild. Yesterday and today were spent completely away from home, running errands, going to the final Bible Study of the year and an impromptu lunch out with friends, grocery shopping in a hurry because the lunch went […]

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