I’m in a MUCH better mood today.
Not that I’ve cleaned my house.
Yes, I know I need to. Yes, I want it to BE clean.
But the busy-ness hasn’t stopped, and my excuses work just as well when I’m smiling as when I’m frowning.
I did run the dishwasher that I filled completely but forgot to start last night when we got home at 10:30 from baseball games.
That’s something, right?
And because this is how my life works, the doorbell rang this morning.
I must not be that welcoming of a person, because it doesn’t often ring on a Friday morning.
Wait, are you under the impression that this was an unexpected ring?
Oh, well . . . it really wasn’t. Or it shouldn’t have been. I do vaguely recall sending a “I’ll be home until 10 tomorrow morning, so you can stop by and pick up that costume” email.
Honestly, it wasn’t as bad as it could have been. I did pseudo-pick-up the living room yesterday.
But oh, the dining room table. The first-thing-you-see-when-you-walk-in-the-door dining room table. The wow-it’s-actually-cleaned-off-so-it’s-the-perfect-place-to-unpack-this-package-the-FedEx-guy-just-delivered dining room table.
But thankfully, I’m laughing. Why no angst? It was a theatre person. An artsy-phartsy theatre person. A friend who is an artsy-phartsy theatre person. One of those who let it all hang out.
And so there was no imagining what must be going through her mind.
Nope. She just said, “Girl, I know how it is! Don’t you hate it when someone comes over and your house is a total wreck?”
Mmm-hmmm. And I laughed. Because I think I’d rather have someone say it out loud than just think it in their head.
At least that’s how I feel today.
Mama Laundry says
Oh I just love it when those unexpected people are those that don't care how messy things are! I always breathe a huge sigh of relief.
-Lauren
Tiffany says
We are living in Italy right now and I recently heard a saying that applies oh-so-well to my life….and maybe yours. 🙂 "A messy home invites unexpected guests." I can have everything in order for days and not a soul drops by. Let me forget to get the garbage out, have dishes in the sink, laundry on the couch….someone is sure to stop by. Why is that?!
Fiona says
LOL!!!
I just loved this!!
Tiffany, I've been asking the same question for the past quarter-century.
I am trying, yes still trying, to find the elusive A Place For Everything,And Everything In Its Place."
Amy says
Those are true friends, LOL. I have one friend who has always had a cluttered/messy house (even worse than mine) and she totally owns it… doesn't even try to clean up when she knows I'm stopping by. I've always felt really comfortable there! 🙂