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Using My Head Exploding Rule to Declutter

February 26, 2015 By Dana White | 47 Comments

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Using My Head Exploding Rule to Declutter at ASlobComesClean.com

I was listening to my own podcast (a rare thing, since I don’t edit them) about the Head Explosion Rule as I cleaned up the kitchen this morning.

So when I ran across that glass lid-thingy in the picture, and began to feel a physical, head-exploding sensation come over me, I knew just what to do.

I threw it in the trash.

It’s the lid to a candle that my 13yo bought for me for Christmas. I love the candle, but I’m really not one to put lids on candles.

I’m sure there’s a reason to put lids on candles, but I’ve never, in my 41 years of life, known what that reason was.

But knowing that someone in the world of candles knows of a really good reason (obviously, since they make the lids) that I don’t know made me think maybe there was a reason I should keep it.

Knowing there’s a reason + not being able to imagine what that reason is = head explosion.

If something causes my head to feel like it’s going to explode, I declutter it.

If you’re a candle expert, feel free to explain the reason. Not that it matters now, since it’s gone.

Decluttering Strategies for when decluttering is hard! I call this the Head Explosion Rule. What do I do when that ONE thing makes me feel like my head is going to explode.

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  1. Michelle says

    February 26, 2015 at 11:29 am

    This made me laugh. I just threw out several of these lids. And I declutter the same way. I’ll see something over and over in a drawer or cabinet, and then one day, I just can’t take it anymore and it’s gone.

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    • kris says

      March 1, 2015 at 12:51 pm

      LOL…me too. I just gutted all 3 bedrooms this past week and lots of stuff got tossed because no one had looked at it or for it in many many months. The rest is being donated once I get it into boxes and bags.

      Reply
  2. Sarah says

    February 26, 2015 at 11:44 am

    Not a candle expert, but if you put the top on the candle after the flame is out, the candle doesn’t get dusty. The top gets dusty but the top is smooth and easier to clean than the candle.

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    • Jennifer says

      February 26, 2015 at 3:10 pm

      what she said. but i probably would’ve tossed it too.

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    • Mary says

      March 1, 2015 at 8:21 pm

      Putting the top on the candle puts it out without blowing it (and then the wax can go flying) or having to go look for a snuffer.

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  3. PegD says

    February 26, 2015 at 11:46 am

    Head explosion…that’s a good one. I feel that way about those random pens, buttons, screws etc. that show up on the counter…I don’t however feel that way about the candle lid. I cover my candle in the kitchen to keep the dust out of it. I am a sporadic candle burner. If I didn’t cover it, the next time I decided to burn it, it would have to burn off the layer of dust first. It is way easier for me to dust the glass than the candle. 🙂 I do however, burn off the first layer of dust in the living room because those candles don’t have lids. sigh.

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    • Evelyn says

      December 28, 2015 at 7:56 pm

      We must be kindred spirits!

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    • Lynn Chrimes says

      December 7, 2024 at 6:31 am

      You lost me at the dusting part 🤣🤣Xx

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  4. Tanya says

    February 26, 2015 at 11:46 am

    I always throw away the candle lids. But I decided to google your question, and the lids are to keep the fragrance oils in the candle from losing it’s scent when not in use/burning… I will still continue to throw away the lids 🙂

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  5. karen b says

    February 26, 2015 at 12:25 pm

    I always use the lids to “blow” the candle out. It doesn’t put smoke in the room 🙂
    only w/ glass or medal lids though

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  6. Erin says

    February 26, 2015 at 12:56 pm

    If you have decorator candles, and dust gets stuck to them, you can use an old pair of nylons (hose or kneehighs) to rub them clean.

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    • Shallon says

      February 26, 2015 at 4:33 pm

      I just tossed a bunch of nylons, but they are still in the house trash – might dig out a pair and try it!

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      • Rainee says

        April 9, 2022 at 5:17 am

        Also nylons are good for tying up plants because they are stretchy and for a sink drainer to stop clogging pipes

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        • Erin says

          June 6, 2022 at 10:16 pm

          And good for wiping away any deodorant you might accidentally get in your clothes!!

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  7. Vickie says

    February 26, 2015 at 12:59 pm

    I save the lids so I can store things in the jar after I have used the candle and cleaned up the jar…..

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    • Robyn says

      February 27, 2015 at 4:30 am

      That’s what I thought they were for. But the scent/oil sounds plausable too. But I don’t use lids either. I’d reuse the jar for storage though

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  8. Carrie says

    February 26, 2015 at 8:07 pm

    totally get it!! Haha! I do use the lids but I’m like that about McDonalds toys I randomly find! I smuggle them into the trash like a ninja!

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  9. Elleke says

    February 27, 2015 at 7:21 am

    Long time reader, first time commenter. I just love the head explossion explanation, i had one yesterday. My 4 year old was eating grapes and the rolled off the couch and under it, in stead off getting to it in a minute i picked the up ( and some dust bunnies because you know couch ) right then. Only took a second!

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  10. Mandie says

    February 27, 2015 at 9:36 am

    I put the lid back on the candle to both extinguish the flame & to keep the odor from stinking up the house.

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  11. Nikki says

    February 27, 2015 at 10:08 am

    Thank you for permission to throw away the candle lids. Seriously.

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  12. Dawn says

    March 1, 2015 at 6:13 pm

    Thank you for not making me feel alone….I throw out every single candle lid too. Not a single lid is safe. I don’t see a purpose in them one bit lol….

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  13. Jordan says

    March 2, 2015 at 10:06 am

    I’ve got to say I tend to keep little things like this, thinking “oh I could use this in a DIY project…. ohhh, I’m sure I’ll need it in my next art project….” and then I have no room in my drawers left and have to do a huge purge of things.

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  14. Debbie says

    March 2, 2015 at 10:12 am

    I don’t buy candles without lids because I rotate my candles out and it takes me a long time to actually burn an entire candle. The ones not in use go in a closet and without lids, the closet would smell like competing scents and give me a headache when I opened it. If the lids don’t work for you, there’s no reason to worry about tossing it. I feel the same way about soy sauce packets from the Chinese restaurant—I don’t use them and never will, so into the trash they go, right away.

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  15. Brandi says

    March 2, 2015 at 11:41 am

    As others have said – lids keep the dust out of candles, but the biggest reason NOT to toss them is that they keep your candle smelling stronger longer. Without the lid the oils that make it smell good eventually dry out or dissipate and the candle will loose its fragrance.

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  16. HJ says

    March 5, 2015 at 4:01 am

    Toss them in your donate box! Lots of folks would be glad to have them.

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  17. sabrina says

    March 5, 2015 at 4:32 am

    We use them as ashtrays out side….

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  18. Katie Ann says

    March 5, 2015 at 10:51 pm

    I just tossed a coupl ethis week from our christmas gift candles! So funny to read your post, because I was trying to think of your tips, and was thinking would I EVER put this back on???? Or if I did feel like putting it on where whould I look for it….? Then I happily chucked it. 😀 <3

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  19. Margie says

    March 8, 2015 at 1:52 am

    The lids are to extinguish the candle without causing that black smoke to rise and collect on your walls and ceilings. Thing is, while you burn the candle the smoke is rising and doing the same thing, but less so. So there you have it. I usually misplace the lids and can never find them when I want to extinguish my candle, so it’s probably best to just chuck them.

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  20. Sabrina says

    July 16, 2017 at 6:47 pm

    I don’t really use candles, but coming from the desert, I think about a lid perhaps coming in handy when transporting them- especially if they get left in a hot vehicle for any amount of time.

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  21. Sheree says

    August 8, 2017 at 6:42 pm

    I have two candle lids that I have kept “just in case” … but now I can’t find the candles !!!!!

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  22. Sarah says

    October 7, 2017 at 10:20 pm

    You are in my head… again. Positive thoughts that make me realize that it’s not just me. I have a soul sista! Thank you…

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  23. Sarah says

    October 7, 2017 at 10:21 pm

    You are in my head. Again… thank you for reminding me I am not alone. Soul sista!

    Reply
  24. Nicki says

    June 21, 2018 at 7:10 pm

    I use them as tealight holders….or ashtrays….or to put pennies in when I’m going thru the pockets of laundry. Wen its full it goes in a piggybank….

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  25. Jan says

    June 30, 2018 at 8:58 am

    Ok, here’s a reason NOT to use the candle lid. I have a certain candle that I KOVE that they don’t make anymore. Rather than burn it, I have it sitting near the head of my bed so that I will randomly smell it when I’m lying in bed. I do the “head explosion” thing with certain clothing. When I put it on, if I am paying close attention, I can literally feel myself tense up and feel anxious. So now, rather than hang it back up, I toss it.

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    • Jan says

      June 30, 2018 at 8:59 am

      Love, not KOVE, lol

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  26. Susan says

    June 5, 2020 at 10:01 pm

    It’s just such a great tip, Dana.

    Reply
  27. Kelley says

    August 6, 2020 at 10:50 pm

    I was just listening to the first book tonight and this topic, head explosions, came up. I had to literally lol even though this is a refresher listen. It just really struck me funny. I always thought the lid keeps the candle’s fragrance from wearing off too but that doesn’t mean that I never come across them solo!

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  28. Jane says

    October 6, 2020 at 10:24 pm

    It’s to snuff the candle and keep it clean. I wouldn’t have kept it, either, though.

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  29. Jean Diehl says

    October 10, 2020 at 5:36 pm

    I use the lid to extinguish the candle so my husband doesn’t say “I smell smoke! Is something burning?” every time I put a candle out. It also helps for large candles that I don’t burn right away to avoid a layer of flammable dust. Of course, this doesn’t explain the 2 lids I’ve been keeping for years thinking there is a candle “somewhere” missing a lid.

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  30. Lisa Champion says

    July 27, 2021 at 9:11 am

    The lids help keep the oils strong.
    I do not use lids to extinguish for that makes smoot in the jar, and discolor the wax a bit. I use a wick-dipper to dip the wick to extinguish, then I put the lid on.
    However, I do not keep random lids; when the candle is done, so is the container and lid.

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  31. Chris says

    July 27, 2021 at 10:02 am

    Dust inhibitor and I grab them to use for pattern weights when sewing.

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  32. Gaelle says

    July 27, 2021 at 1:42 pm

    Yes – perfect for sewing pattern weights! Also, if you do any work with beads of any kind, these glass candle lids are great for keeping beads of different colors and sizes separate while you’re working on a project. I sit them in front of me at my workspace. And the lids are heavy enough to not tip over and spill beads all over. I always keep several of these lids on hand, but only because I use them. Otherwise, I’d pull off the plastic seal from the glass portion and toss both in our recycle trash.

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  33. Sarah says

    July 27, 2021 at 3:34 pm

    I burn candles a lot and usually will put the lid under the candle if it can fit. Or if not, I put beside the candle. I use the lid to extinguish the candle and it also holds in the scent. Always keep the wicks short. A couple tips for next time you receive a candle?

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  34. Mylinda says

    July 30, 2021 at 8:16 am

    I have a hard time throwing the glass jars that “Glade” candles come in. I always think that there just has to be a use for them that I haven’t found and as soon as I toss all of them, I will discover it. Of course, I don’t take into account that there will always be more because I like the candles.

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  35. margaretow says

    April 9, 2022 at 11:30 am

    It’s the bloody jars that the pasta sauce comes in. They are good Mason jars, surely I shouldn’t through them out! But then, one day, I open the cupboard and see the ten good mason jars that are just THERE and I have no use for them and BOOM! head explosion! (I am getting better since we moved recently, now I let them sit on the counter for a few days instead of washing and putting in the cupboard, then get annoyed, and throw them out.

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  36. Carolyn Trammell says

    April 12, 2022 at 5:22 pm

    I am laughing (but want to cry) because I have one of those, somewhere. That is because I have one of everything (or so it seems). When and if I see it again, I will remember this (I hope.).

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  37. Peggy Eisenberg says

    December 7, 2022 at 3:00 pm

    While some people have mentioned reasons for a candle lid– protect from dust and to reduce smoke when you put the flame out– no one mentioned the real reason. Putting a lid on candles helps preserve the fragrance.

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