For me, garage sales have always been the answer when it comes to decluttering. They give me a goal/deadline to work toward. The thought of getting a nice chunk of change also motivates me.
But a few months ago, a thrift store sent out notices that they would be picking up donations in our area on a certain date. Just put your stuff outside your front door with the bright orange card attached, and they would haul it off for you.
I was thrilled, because although I remember my mother often donating things to organizations that did pick-ups, in my small town, we’d never had that opportunity. I knew that you could call and schedule a pick-up, but I never did. Somehow, though, having someone say “we’re coming” motivated me to get it out there on the date they gave.
I didn’t know if it would be a one time thing, but then we received another orange card a few weeks ago.
Today was the day. I put out my boxes of stuff with a spring in my step. I was giddy at the thought.
Put piles of junk outside the door, and in a few hours, it’s all gone.
I even tried to keep an eye out for the picker-upper, but I never saw him/her/it.
It’s like magic.
There are definite benefits to having a garage sale, and I’m sure I’ll continue to have more garage sales than normal people do. If money is the motivation you need, go for it. But even though I actually enjoy having a garage sale, I think I could learn to enjoy this too.
I won’t make any money, but I also won’t have to work for weeks (or months) to get ready, park in the driveway for all of that time, get up at 6 a.m. on a Saturday morning, convince my kids (over and over all day long) that they really do want to get rid of that toy, and then haul off the extra things that don’t sell.
Just letting go, little by little, on a regular basis . . . . that fits with this deslobification process I’m going through. Anything to make this excruciating, never-ending process easier . . .
Donating to the mysterious clutter-eater eliminates so many steps. I can donate anything. I used to try to separate out what was given to me from what I had purchased. If it was given to me, I donated it. If I bought it, I put it in my garage sale. I also knew, because I was a garage sale expert, that I needed to keep things sorted within my garage sale piles. Girls from boys clothes, toys from dishes, etc. But when I let someone take it away for me, I don’t have to sort.
A box of stuff is a box of stuff . . . . is a box of stuff.
While I considered this change in my thought processes this morning, I remembered some advice I was given a few years ago. I was working on a labor-intensive computer project, and got help from an expert friend. There wasn’t much she could do to make it easier, because there were just so many steps involved in the process. But she got excited when she found one little trick that removed a small step. She said, “Any time you can remove a step, even a small one, you should do it, because ultimately, it will save you a lot of time.”
That’s what I’m doing. I’m removing several steps of the get-it-out-of-the-cabinet-then-out-of-the-house-and-out-of-my-life decluttering process.
Kim says
Great post. I'm also a big garage sale holder person. The last few months I've just been holding select nicer things to garage sale and donating the rest. I've limited myself to a tote or so. We are always getting calls for pick ups, but I prefer dropping it off. I like the satisfaction of seeing it go in. AND..I can get a tax deduction..so that's a double plus.
SQUIRREL! says
I started to drop off this last year instead of saving for a yard sale that kept being put off. And I too can always use the tax right off. I find the longer things "wait" for what ever I have planned the more likely it will be reclaimed. ^.^
Julie says
We always say we want to have a yard sale then the stuff just sits and sits, so we just end up chunking it on the side of the road. In our neighborhood, it's just like donating it as it's always picked up within 48 hours and requires no effort for us to haul it somewhere.
Another option is FreeCycle, I've listed lots of things on our local FreeCycle site and found good homes for those items, if it's something I don't want to just put on the street.
Christina Nelson says
But putting it along the side of the road usually means it ends up in a land fill. Not exactly like donating. Unless your county does it different. If I only could get all the stuff from my garage into my car and to Goodwill I’ll feel better.
dinah says
Christina, I believe Julie means someone picks up her stuff; but not the garbage truck.
In my parents neighborhood, anything we put on the curb other than bags of garbage is gone the next morning before the garbage truck arrives. And we never see it happen…
Rhonda says
I live in San Antonio and we have the same thing. Anytime I put something out on the curb, someone picks it up within a couple of hours. People drive around neighborhoods just picking up stuff to resell. It’s a win-win.
Karen@Candid Diversions says
My method is: if the item is "good", then I list it on Craigslist or Ebay. If it doesn't sell = donate.
If an item isn't good enough for Craigslist or Ebay = donate. (Most of my stuff falls into this category)
Yard sales have never really worked for me – too much work for too little profit.
Amy says
Deslobification = best word ever!
Emily says
My husband and I have had this conversation many, many times… we never made enough at a garage sale to justify all the time (and money) that goes into it. If you donate, you get the tax write-off and in our case that is BETTER than a couple of bucks in our pocket! Loving your blog, it motivates me to get rid of "STUFF"… I am up to 113 things DONATED since Jan. 8. only 617 left to go…
ShannonP says
What a wonderful idea, donate 1,000 things! I have four months left until the end of the tax year and I am totally going to do this. I am counting the 48 books we took to Goodwill after our garage sale as part of my 1,000. 😀
Handy Man, Crafty Woman says
We just gave up doing yard sales. TOO MUCH WORK!! I recently found a donation place that will come and pick up in our remote part of the woods (yaaaaaay!!!) they also came & went and I didn't see them (I was home, too, go figure!) it was like magic, I agree. It was awesome!
Keep up the great work.
Kimberly @ Intentional Mom says
Peace of mind is much more important than a few extra bucks! And, you may be tempted to buy more storage boxes to "save" the potential garage sale stuff… defeating the whole purpose!
Shannon L says
I usually donate unwanted stuff but recently a lady has opened a twice a year consignment store near my house. Last year, we made $200. This was a wonderful surprise! I'm hoping to make that much again this coming season, but… I'm decluttering. Its so frustrating to hold onto this stuff, but I remind myself of the money we will make!
AlysMawm says
Love this post! I donate everything and unaccepted items are FreeCycled. This includes things that are still new and have tags on them and electronics. I feel like I’ve hit a jackpot when I find something new at the GoodWill store so nothing wrong with giving someone else a jackpot! After all, if it were that important or valuable, I’d have used it already. As for electronics, once they’re a few years old they’re only worth a few bucks anyway so no loss. If someone happens to have a garage sale and I can drop off a few items, cool, but otherwise there’s just no time!
Nena says
with the two older kids… ages 18 and 15 I had many garage sales. Now I donate everything for my 16 mo or give away or hand me down…. so much easier and lesss stuff in my house. She is every spoiled 🙂
kris says
First, this blog is so what I need. I have no “keep things organized” skills. I can’t wait to read through more of your tips and tricks. Second, gooddonor.com is my favorite website. After you register it shows all the dates in your area for pick ups. I am getting rid of some furniture and I just kept clicking dates until large furniture showed up in the “what are you donating” section. Garage sales are to overwhelming for me so I donate everything when I get rid of it.
Taycia says
LOL i wish we had a pick up service for donations! I have to load up my SUV. Every summer i keep a look out in the paper for when the MOST garage sales will be, load up my front yard with all the stuff i don’t need (yeah i do a binge declutter the day before), and usually just give stuff away to whoever stops by. I live in an area with tons of yard sale junkies, so i usually get rid of 70% of it in one day. the rest goes into my SUV and is dropped off at the donation point. once it leaves, its not going back in.
Flamingo says
oh i am so at this cross roads right now!! i have always made about $400 a yardsale…not chunk change. however i don’t feel like having one again this year for various reasons. but oh the stuff. oh the stuff, stuff stuff i have to get rid of! again. I’m thinking of donating a ton of it….but then it makes me feel lazy because i know i could make enough for a new computer:) or i could look at it as truely giving and be done with it:) hmm..thanks for the post!
Paula says
I am an expert donator, I know every trift store and what they take and what they don’t take.
I have never gotten myself to do a garage sale.
What I get is a lot of hard time from all my friends because I should be selling things on garage sales or craiglist.
Thank you for the post, I an giving myself permission AGAIN to just donate. I’ll happily take the tax deductible receipt.
I have been decluterring for about 4 years and last week I moved to a 350sq ft studio and I couldn’t be happier. I just need to turbo declutter now. My friends also say that I need to keep the “stuff” for when I buy again and move to a bigger place…I say when I move to a bigger place, I’ll go and buy everything at thrift stores and it all comes full circle.
Nony says
Love this perspective, Paula!
Julie says
Way to go! Why have a yard sale when you can help the homeless.
TexasLea says
I’ve had very successful yard sales and some that totally bombed. I stopped having them unless I have some big ticket items to sell that I can get at least $20 for. The reason for that is the last one I had without some higher priced items I worked myself to death pricing those bajillion 50 cent and dollar items. Then I only made made $50 total. I had started the day $15 in the hole because I bought donuts for the family and friends who were nice enough to roll out of bed at the crack of dawn to help me set up then I spent $40 on take out chinese for dinner because I was to exhausted to cook. So I technically paid $5 for some of my stuff to go away and I still had to figure out what to do with all the stuff that didn’t sell.
Now, we get at least one call a month from organizations looking for household donations. I don’t like to tell them no even if I don’t have something ready to go out the door at the time of the call. Like you, having that scheduled pick up day on the calendar motivates me to find stuff. Even if I don’t remember to do it until I get the reminder call the night before pick up. As soon as I hang up the phone I’ll get my bag or box and fill it!
Stopping@4 says
Such a timely post – three years later:) You have (again) helped me make up my mind about the potential upcoming garage sale. All that “stuff” is taking up valuable space in my sewing/storage room. Time for it to go (without all the work of the garage sales that rarely make me any money!). Thank you again:) I’m slow reading the blog, but savoring every post as I find time to read them.
Hilary says
I don’t have time to go to yard sales much less have one. My kids dance on Saturday so I am at dance all most all day. My husband is a band director so if he is home on a Saturday it is amazing and I don’t want to wast that time. If it is a big ticket idem I will sell it online but other then that I donate. In our small town we have a place that I can just drop it off even if the are closed (that is when I do it – faster then talking to people). Donating makes me feel good to and I think it is important to teach to my kids. Love your blog!
Kat says
There is one other great thing you get out of donating things instead of a garage sale. And that’s the tax write off at the end of the year! We just did a huge decluttering of our daughters closets and after 9 bags of clothes, we felt a whole lot better. Just remember to save the receipt and your set. Good deed done, decluttering done, and a tax write off at the end of the year.
Love your blog!
Dana White says
So true!!
Julie says
I love donating to our local charity. All the proceeds go to a food bank. I can’t stand garage sales.
jessica says
i love this posting! Thank you so very much.
Patricia says
Just saw this on Pinterest,
excellent advice!
I always don’t. A big family yard sale years ago cured me of EVER wanting to do that again.
Nancy says
You will probably make more money with less effort expended if you just document what you donate and take it off your taxes. https://itsdeductibleonline.intuit.com/ makes it easy. I have used it for years and it makes a HUGE difference in our taxes owed. We always owe…
Nancy says
Another tip:
Keep clear 90 gallon trash bags on hand. Load them up and toss them in the trunk of your car. As you drive by a charity, make a quick stop. Goodwill is GREAT about ease of drop off. Some have staffed drive thru places. Some are just a store front in a shopping center. Use clear so you know the difference between the stuff you’re donating and the stuff you’re throwing away!
melissa c says
Great post! I’ve been starting to declutter…because I have to. After reading your blog. ..up to oct 2010 I believe I’m your less talented cousin (but a huge slob) who lives in WI. I’ve tried the fb garage sales but had a bad experience. … and because I live in the country the one garage sale I had made $.75…. think I’m finding donating is the best option, and its my own fault for buying so much
Lety says
This totally hit home. I’ve had a big box full of stuff I’ve wanted to put out on a sidewalk sale for the last two summers, but it has yet to take place. In the meantime I tried Craigslist, Ebay and Listia, but not much success there. I think I’m going to take the advice you shared, avoid ALL the steps involved in these options and just donate all of it. Thanks for this post! 🙂
Brooke @ Piggy Bank Savers says
This has been a constant struggle in our house. I hate to have anything sitting around. While I enjoy shopping garage sales, I absolutely HATE hosting them myself. The payout just isn’t worth the time, in my opinion. My husband would keep and sell everything if he could lol! We’ve come to a bit of an agreement. No yard sales whatsoever. 90% gets donated. If the item can fetch more than $20, hubby is welcome to list it on craigslist, but I don’t ever want to see the item again…..no bringing it back into the house if it doesn’t sell after a week lol!
PJ says
Personally, I’d rather have my Saturday and all the time it takes to organize the sale than the $200 I’ll make. I Freecycled tons of stuff I had been holding onto after my mother died. Yes, I gave away her beloved soup tureen, not because I disliked it, but because I RARELY MAKE SOUP!
Dani says
I donate and feel great about it. The clutter is gone when I want it gone. But the best part is my unwanted stuff benefits someone else and you can’t really get that same feeling through sales.
Thanks for the article, Nony!
Carolyn says
Tax deductions? Wow. No way you can claim giveaways on taxes here in Australia. Only cash donations over $5 can be claimed.
Catherine says
We do not get tax deductions in the UK for giving away to charity.
We do not have Garage sales,we have Car Boot Sales. You get up at unearthly hour with your car packed drive to where ever it is, sit in a queue, hope you get a pitch and hopefully sell because someone want’s what you have.
Hopefully the weather is good tomorrow because guess what we are doing a Car Boot Sale. Wish me luck.
Love your blog
Dana White says
Good luck!!!!
Elizabeth says
I REFUSE to donate items to Goodwill or other charities who turn around and sell the donations for profit. I much prefer giving to local churches, homeless shelters, families in need, etc. I’ve even posted on the towns local FB page items that are FREE and will gladly meet the individual in a public setting to give the item. I suppose the only item(s) I will not give away, although I have in the past, are antiques.
Sarah says
My solution has been to have a garage sale and schedule a pick up for the day after the garage sale. Also, to those who want to drop off for the tax slip: when they pick up, they will leave a slip, as well. 🙂 Best of all possible worlds – make some money, get rid of what’s left, get a tax rebate.
Thanks for the perspective, Nony!
Judy says
These are wonderful helpful hints and ideas. Helped me to make the decision between garage sale and donation. I am moving to a smaller place and need some good advice aboutI people do with the albums and pictures that pile up over the years plus the stuff we take from our parents. Any ideas outside of storing them on a computer?
Britt says
Judy, that is my problem. I’m the only child and last family member, in my 50s and have a ton of family heirlooms, pictures, etc. I can’t let go of. Too many memories!
April Surratt says
I was debating whether to have a yard sale this coming summer or donate to a thrift store. Your article made a lot of sense and I am going to donate. I am trying to declutter and this will decluttwe my mind faster than saving it until next summer.
Mac says
Oh my, I just stumbled upon this when I was desperate enough to ask Google whether to donate or have a garage sale? I have donated a lot, but never held a yard sale even though our subdivision holds one each spring. The annual yard sale is coming up at the end of the month and we have a 1800 sq.ft. basement full of stuff that we do not need. I feel guilty sometimes and feel that I should try to earn back some of that money spent on items that were never used and still have the tags on them. But, I am also realistic and know they won’t fetch anything worth the work that would go into a garage sale. Ultimately, we always have (and will again) donate. I remember as a kid (youngest of five) being thrilled to go to the local charity and get some “new” clothes/toys. I remember the feeling that I had and being able to give someone else that feeling is way better than making a few bucks! Pay it forward is what I say.
Donna says
After reading all these comments, I believe I will take the donating route. I’ve only had a few garage sales, never made over $100, and it’s sooooo time consuming. I could pick up the phone and make one reorder call for my skin care business and make $100 and reconnect with a client/friend! I do know of a shop that will come by and pick up and they donate their proceeds to a women’s shelter.
Thanks for the tips/advice!
Sandra H says
What is my time worth? A whole lot more than what I have ever made at a garage sale.
Once I hired the teen from next door to help me for two days, first day to set up and display my already sorted and priced garage sale items, the next day to be my shop assistant during the sale and then to box up the leftovers and load them into the truck to take to the donation center.
The proceeds from the sale were not enough to cover paying my helper minimum wage for the hours she worked. I paid the difference out of pocket.
That was my last garage sale ever.
My helper and I had a great conversation about the value and worth of our labor and time. She has an MBA now and advises entrepreneurs in the early stages of building businesses. One of the themes that comes up for her over and over is accurately pricing your product to reflect the value of your skills and time, not just adding on some random percentage of the cost of materials.
Eileen says
Having a tax write off with the new tax laws is almost nonexistent. I had two three day garage sales last summer and made over $3000 so they work for me. Anything that didn’t sell went to several thrift stores. I had the advantage of a garage space that I could set up tables and keep adding over the winter months. I cleaned every drawer, closet, room and had a fabulous time, wheeling and dealing. I almost gave some things away, hobby stuff that I knew was going to a good home, a dollhouse for a granddaughter, etc. Lots of work, money and fun!!
Cindy Peplow says
For me, letting go means letting the guilt go concerning wasted money when not using something. Donating helps me because maybe someone can be helped even though I made a mistake. Garage sales are stressful… the most I have ever made was $300 and that was for several days of hard work. Nope, I now donate!
Jo says
I have been selling online and also having garage sales. I hate garage sales and don’t think I will do another one in a hurry! Online selling can be fast and worthwhile or time consuming and painful! I am now leaning more towards donating but find it hard to do as I have seen charities throw really good items into a dumpster! No tax deductions here unfortunately…
Jan says
There’s an elderly lady in my church who is having a yard sale to make money to pay off bills. I’m donating my stuff to her, so win-win!!
Dana White says
I love that!!!
Amy Beckel says
We’ve had a few garage sales but I really really dislike the entire process. Your encouragement to just LET IT GO has been so helpful. Our town has an absolutely wonderful family shelter that runs its own coffee shop and thrift store, so it’s a joy to be able to donate to them. They’ll use what they can and sell the rest. We have to make appointments to drop off (because of staffing issues/COVID-19) but that just helps me get more motivated to get those boxes ready.
We also list things on Freecycle and our local Nextdoor. I hate selling things so try to just give them away. If the “getters” can sell the items, so much the better!
I love when you re-post things, Dana, since I wasn’t de-slobifying when you started and now am catching up! 😀
Linda says
I would just like to say ,”saving for friends” didn’t work for me. They were too slow to pick up the items they swore they wanted. Donation is the way to go for me.
Marion Westerling says
I’m with you! We had a garage sale this past Friday and we made $107. While that was a nice bit of change, it’s not worth the hassle of parking in the carport for months, sorting, carrying this crap to the yard sale. Nope, I’m done. I’m going to start donating to our Free store here in town.
Linda says
I saved things for years because they “could” be worth something. I had 4 large boxes of stuff. I’m cleaning out that closet now & finally decided to just donate them. If they are worth something than the charity I donate them to will get more $$ for it, I see that as a win win. Just a side note, I called my sister to tell her how happy I was to be purging these things, & she told me I was “stupid” (I really hate that word). I could be making money, blah blah blah. I explained that if I haven’t done it by now, realistically, I was never going to do it. I then added that if she wanted to sell them I would bring the 4 large boxes over to her house & she could sell them. There was a lot of mumbling & her answer was no. My point is don’t let anybody talk you out of doing what you know is best for you. Sorry for the long rant.
Florence says
My cousin’s son is the family genealogy expert. He even found some misplaced second or third cousins on the opposite coast and shared his findings with them and got us caught up on them. A few years later they reached out to him. They were reaching retirement age and there no descendants in their line to pass on the portraits and heirlooms they had from their grandparents. Chuck was willing to give them a home and has a very nice portrait gallery in his upstairs hall (away from bright sunlight) plus a few interesting vases, etc., and especially that bit of family history.
I know you aren’t likely to see this ten years later, but maybe there is someone in your more distant family that loves genealogy and family history.
AnnB says
Florence,
Sometimes local museums will accept family portraits, etc. for the history of the people in the area. It doesn’t hurt to ask.
Sometimes photographers, authors or artists want old photos (early photography) for projects etc.
Google it and get it sent off quickly.
Dawn says
I got your email today that linked back to this blog. I, too, am preparing for a move and getting rid of a lot of stuff that does not need to be in my new home. I scheduled another pick-up of stuff for this coming Friday (I think I have had them come about 4 -6 times this year so far.