Day 2 of Return to Routine.
This week, I’m focusing on being thorough with my daily checklist and my weekly tasks.
Yesterday, I did pretty well, and also conquered quite a few little piles of clutter that had been ignored all summer. I felt good about it.
Too good.
When I was writing my post, it did occur to me that I hadn’t actually done the “Focused 5 Minute Pick-Up.” But, as I tend to do, I let myself be overly proud of all the things I HAD done, and decided that was enough.
Then, at 5:45, the doorbell rang. Suddenly, my Selective-Vision cleared up and I looked around to see a living room with undies on the coffee table, dolls stuffed legs-up behind the couch cushions and who-knows-what-else scattered all over the floor. Maybe it’s a Pavlovian thing.
Unfortunately, it was hot enough that I couldn’t leave my friend standing out there at the door while I did some crazy-woman-decluttering.
So, today I printed out my daily checklist, and carried it around the house. Whenever I start to get off track, I find that I have to do this. Something about physically holding a piece of paper, even though it’s one that I created, makes me be conscious about these tasks.
I also cleaned bathrooms today . . . since it’s Tuesday.
For the summer, the kids had been cleaning them, and today my 4yo wanted to help. The only problem was that I wanted to do a deep-cleaning after more than two months of “educational cleaning.”
Meaning, I wanted to use my lethal stuff. You know, the shower cleaner that requires major ventilation and the toilet bowl cleaner that eats a hole in your carpet in less than 3 seconds if you spill some (unfortunately, a proven fact).
So, I snuck around, hoping that she wouldn’t come looking for me or see me move along the walls of the living room carrying a sponge.
I did decide to use the home-made all-purpose cleaner, made from Ivory liquid, vinegar, and water, to clean the counters, sinks and my only-used-by-me tub. I loved not having to be paranoid about accidentally contaminating a bar of soap, a toothbrush or a candle. With the lethal stuff, my neurotic mind takes over and I picture lighting a candle only to have toxic fumes emit from it due to a forgotten splash of cleaner.
As a slob, I don’t need those kinds of excuses to not clean.
I found though, that there were quite a few spots on the counter after it dried. Ideally, I could shine it up with a dry cloth, but I’m not really a go-back-and-shine-it kind of girl. When I’m done cleaning a bathroom, I’m done. The only thing I want to do after that is take a bow.
Now that I’ve decontaminated myself with a hot shower, I’m reminded, once again, how much I love clean bathrooms. It’s amazing how when I’ve been neglecting my home for a while, it seems like cleaning it is all for the sake of others, but when I’ve cleaned it, I’m reminded that a clean home is really for me.
And don’t worry, I’m not advocating the toxic cleaners. I’d like to get to the point (being consistent and cleaning the bathrooms myself), where I could use the home-made cleaners and get it as clean as it needs to be. That way, that my 4yo could work alongside me.
Someone at the door or a photo of the space usually "help" me see all that's wrong with it.
Hmm, sorry to hear about the spots on the counter. Can't say I've encountered (get it – en"counter"ed – haha) that problem. I have switched to castile soap but that shouldn't make a difference. I wonder if the amount of Ivory added (thinking less is more) would make a difference? Total bummer.
Good luck with your continued journey.
Hi Shell,
I might try less ivory next time. In thinking about it, it also might be that my rag was too wet. I didn't notice the spots on the first counters I did, but on the ones after I had used that rag to clean the bathtub and then had rinsed it out well.
i am looking forward to back to school in two weeks, so i can start to get back into routine too.
if someone rang my doorbell today, i'd panic.
way to go for accomplishing what you did! remember baby steps 🙂
This is my 2nd visit to your site and I am a slob-O-phile. I have lived in the mess just about forever and I feel at home here. LOL. I can totally get the “not seeing” stuff until something Makes you take notice. I am a working wife, kids are adults but I have a son that is just like me..a slob. He lives at home in our basement. I call him “the Troll”. He is actually worse than me. He sees nothing.
Anyway, I started the dishes and floor sweeping this week and I am on day three. So far so good and my kitchen looks really good. I just got my book from Amazon and am really excited about moving forward, but will try to instill the first habits before starting new ones. Enthusiasm can be its own worst enemy by taking on too much too soon.! Thanks