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Give it to Nony . . . She’ll Take Anything

June 4, 2010 By Dana White | 7 Comments

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Biggest Garage Sale Rule for Slobs – Bring nothing back into the house.

I had my garage sale two weeks ago tomorrow. I haven’t brought anything back into the house, but there were several bags of clothing sitting in the garage, producing guilt.

Several, as in, they filled the back of my Suburban when I loaded them up this morning.

I love hand-me-downs. There’s nothing like searching for treasure in a big black trash bag. And people know this about me. I can remember one fall when the boys were small. It was the first day of cool weather and people were starting to change over their kids’ clothes. At least two friends called to see if I wanted their son’s hand-me-downs. Ummm, of course!

I know who to give the bags of boy stuff to. I know who to give the maternity stuff to. But I’m having trouble with the girl stuff. It seems that our daughter is the youngest girl we know without big sisters. I’ve been asking and asking, and haven’t found anyone. Since one big bag is full of the stuff I didn’t put in our sale because it was given to us, I really wanted to bless someone else with it. (I also had another huge bag full of the stuff that didn’t sell in our sale . . . and we sold a lot!)

Yes, we have issues with clothing.

This girl stuff was big weight on my shoulders. I heard of someone who used to go to our church who might need it . . . but that would require searching for her, finding her, reminding her who I am, coordinating a way to get the clothes to her . . . too many steps for this slob.

This morning I loaded up the bags to go see if our local thrift store was accepting donations (they often are “full” at this time of year), and then got a call from a friend who was in the middle of her own garage sale, and who had given me many of the clothes in the one bag. I “blessed” her by giving her both girl bags, and telling her to sell it and keep the money. (And then SHE has to figure out what to do with it.)

Hand-me-downs are a blessing, but I often let them turn into a burden, by not being able to say no to the fourth person who asks if I need them. I can’t handle the excess. I always make piles when I go through a box of clothes, separating out the ones to keep and the ones to “donate.” However, the donate pile rarely leaves my garage, and it soon becomes invisible (to me) clutter. The frustration over that clutter probably negates any joy that I received from the free clothes.

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  1. Lenetta @ Nettacow says

    June 7, 2010 at 3:51 am

    I forgot to mention that the title of this cracked me up. You have a gift!

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  2. KellieD says

    January 4, 2014 at 9:02 am

    Whenever I can, I donate the clothing I no longer want to keep to the homeless shelters. They can use any type of clothing and especially children’s clothing. Doing it this way has been the only way I can get my husband to give up any clothes in his closet.

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  3. Linda says

    March 2, 2014 at 11:32 pm

    Does your area have those “Yard Sale” groups on Facebook? I live in a smaller area and there are still about a dozen. You can post that you have free girl stuff @ whatever age, and people are sure to respond. Or, you can try Craigslist?

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  4. andrea says

    January 1, 2015 at 11:24 am

    It’s like you are the other half of my brain! You are so connecting the dots for me and solving the mysteries. I’m finally hearing that voice that’s been trying so hard to explain things, and it’s your voice! Light bulbs are going off with every post I read. (I’m new here; you are my 2015 gift. Thank you). Will you please write a post about how hard it is to say no to a hand me down? Everyone puts you down for how much you are willing to take, but then they crumble when you say no. They can’t handle it and you feel bad for letting them down. Please?

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    • Dana White says

      January 5, 2015 at 12:39 pm

      Here are some videos I made last fall on this very subject. This is the link to the first one, just click on “newer post” at the end. https://www.aslobcomesclean.com/2014/10/approaches-to-clutter-guilt-sample-conversations-and-videos/

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  5. Sarah says

    January 2, 2015 at 12:13 pm

    I consign thesee types of items. They bless our family even more that way! Pants that didn’t fit one child may sell for enough money for me to buy a shirt for another child, for example.

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  6. margie says

    January 2, 2015 at 6:12 pm

    Could really relate! Always have bags going for this person or that! Becomes a burden, and always making things messy!!

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