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A Reader Shares How She ‘Re-Thinks’ about Cleaning

September 17, 2019 By Dana White 7 Comments

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A Reader Shares How She 'Re-Thinks' about Cleaning Declutter Nightstand at ASlobcomesClean.com

I love hearing from readers about mindset changes and personal victories. This one is great! Though, to be clear, Lisa’s the one referring to me as Guru, not me! I would say “fellow struggler who thinks about these things WAY more than the average person” would be more fitting!

I love how Lisa shares the impact of simply changing the way she thinks about her home and her stuff. Re-thinking is a powerful tool.

Dear Guru Dana,

I’ve been a follower and fan for maybe six months. I could go on at length about how helpful your magic has been to me. I’m forever mentally drafting a book called A Return to Good Enough: Reflections on How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind. You know, sort of like Marianne Williamson’s A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of A Course in Miracles except instead of rethinking love I’m rethinking, well, thinking. And cleaning. Rethinking thinking about cleaning. A bottomless pit for me. Your observation about how for many folks, managing the dishwasher or putting away the laundry or just tending to any little mess now rather than a big scary mess later aren’t decisions. For many folks, these are automatic responses. Huh. No thinking or decision making required. I get it. 
 
Anyway, to the point, three weeks ago today I ran across your 2010 post about containers. At the time I was lamenting the condition of my night stand. It’s a small thing, but I use my nightstand the way some folks might use a desk. At night, I need books and a phone charger and actual pen and paper for ideas and notes. Early morning–between the Mister’s departure and teens up and at’em for school–I need my laptop and a perch for my coffee mug while I get a bead on the day ahead. 
 
This was my nightstand AT ITS BEST on the day I read your container post:
Reader Re-Thinks Cleaning nightstand before at ASlobComesClean.com
And this, 7 minutes later, after I grabbed a basket that was headed for a return to the store (wrong shape/size for the napkins for which is was intended):
nightstand after decluttering at ASlobComesClean.com
Perfect? No.
Totally good enough and awesomely functional? YES. YES. YES!
Books, note pad, tissue, laptop, power cord, charging cord all in one basket. My eyeglasses case got moved to a bathroom drawer where my eyeglasses are actually used when I take a break from contacts. And the special-occasion dusting? I don’t actually know, of course, but I suspect it will be sooo easy ’cause what do I have to move? Three things. THREE THINGS. Instead of  . . . maybe a dozen?
So, thank you, Guru Dana. You are making the world a better place and the people in it a little happier.
I’m about half-done with a major art/craft studio cleanup and organization project. It is fueled almost entirely by you! I’m making photos along the way and building a blog series to document my fits-and-starts and ah-has! and uh-ohs!; I’ll share it with you as it rolls out.
Again, huge, HUGE thanks for your self-awareness and willingness to share it with the world. What a gift.
Lisa

Thanks for sharing your experience, Lisa!

 A Reader Shares How She 'Re-Thinks' about Cleaning Declutter Nightstand before and after at ASlobComesClean.com
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220: Downsizing – Cleaning Out The WHOLE House Podcast

September 12, 2019 By Dana White 1 Comment

7shares 3 0 4 Cleaning out a home where you or a loved one has lived for a long time isn’t fun. But it’s reality. As my family has recently experienced, the time does come when everything has to go. I’m sharing the process we went through, and some strategies for getting the job done. […]

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219: Helping Someone Downsize – the Beginning of the (Slow) Process Podcast

September 5, 2019 By Dana White 5 Comments

13shares 6 0 7 Well, this one was hard to title! Maybe because it’s such a hard thing to do! I’m talking about beginning the process of helping someone downsize. The goal is to develop decluttering momentum while also developing trust in the process with the person you’re helping. Things mentioned: Garage Sale Podcasts: One, […]

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Why Do Organizing Systems Work Great for Some People and Fail Miserably For Others?

September 3, 2019 By Dana White 13 Comments

297shares 140 2 155 Why do organizing systems work great for some people and don’t work at all for other people? There’s nothing more frustrating for a naturally disorganized person than to implement a “perfect” system exactly as prescribed, only to have it fail. Believe me, I know. Every time I failed at another “tried […]

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218: Wishing Someone Would Declutter Podcast

August 29, 2019 By Dana White 4 Comments

35shares 27 0 8 We recently went through the whole process of dealing with my mother-in-law’s possessions after her death. I was grateful for the decluttering and downsizing we’d already done over the past few years. I will be sharing about this process in upcoming podcasts, but first I decided it was important to talk […]

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One Decade Down – 10 Years of A Slob Comes Clean

August 26, 2019 By Dana White 33 Comments

61shares 48 0 13 On August 24th, 2009, I wrote the first post on my secret blog. Ten years later, I’m writing this post. Ten years is a decade. Double digits. The decade mark at this job I made up is a great time to consider my past and my future in it. So, I […]

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217: It’s Never Always All or Nothing Podcast

August 22, 2019 By Dana White 5 Comments

64shares 53 1 10 The All or Nothing Mentality doesn’t help! And it’s a great excuse for me to avoid doing things I should be doing. I’m talking about applying it to the small things and how that keeps my house from getting out of control. I also share how avoiding this mentality and just […]

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SUMMERTIME!!!

June 3, 2019 By Dana White 13 Comments

40shares 36 0 4 Summer break has arrived! I love summer. I don’t love the heat, but I love the change in routine. If you’ve been around a while, you know that I take summers off from blogging and podcasting. I know for a fact that it has “stunted my growth” as a blogger/podcaster, but […]

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216: The Free Time Delusion Podcast

May 30, 2019 By Dana White 3 Comments

37shares 32 2 3  Summer vacation is here! Along with a lack of routine come the delusions that I’ll have SO MUCH TIME to get things done! After many years of finding myself frustrated that this magical “free time” wasn’t as productive as I assumed it would be, I figured out what I was doing […]

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