Nine years ago, I wrote the very first, photo-less-at-the-time post on what was supposed to be a practice blog that no one would ever know I had created. I wanted to have a blog, but I was ashamed of the state of my home and was desperate to get it under control before I started writing.
I’m thinking today about the things I did NOT know nine years ago. Things I would have laughed at or vehemently denied could ever happen if someone had shown me the future.
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I’m still going.
A Slob Comes Clean was a practice blog. Puh-rac-tice, y’all. It wasn’t real. It wasn’t “my thing.” And it most definitely wasn’t something I’d do or even be able to do for more than a few months. I mean, what in the world would I write about once I’d conquered this messy house thing?
I started this deslobification journey assuming my goal was to find a cure. Instead I found a treatment. Unfortunately, that treatment is doing the dishes. And getting rid of stuff I don’t need. And as long as we eat food or buy anything ever, I get to continue my treatment.
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There are other people in the whole wide world who feel like they somehow missed the line where housekeeping skills were handed out.
Pre-this-blog, I’d never met anyone who was as bewildered as I was about how a house could go from party-ready to oh-my-word-child-if-you-answer-that-door-I-will-never-buy-Oreos-again-don’t-test-me-I-mean-it in two days flat.
Turns out, there are a lot of us.
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People ask me questions about cleaning, organizing and decluttering.
And they listen to my answers!!! And then (get this!) they follow my advice and then thank me because it worked!
Oh my word, this is the most hilarious shocker of all. I’ve written on these subjects, I go on TV shows to teach people how to declutter, and people find my answers when they google things like: “left washing in the washing machine now it smells.”
I’m not laughing because I don’t know how to do these things. I totally know how to do these things because I’ve had to work my bo-hiney off to learn. I just wish I could see the look on my own face if 2018 Me could have told 2009 Me what was coming.
To celebrate, I’m going to give THREE SETS of my books: Decluttering at the Speed of Life, How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind, and Giving God the Worst of Me, signed by me!
There are three separate giveaways for three sets of three books, each giveaway with its own winner, so read on to find out how to enter one of them or all of them!
First, tell me how you found me in a comment on this post! I love getting to know my kindred spirits! One comment will be chosen using random.org, and that commenter will win a set of signed books.
Second, I’m going to choose one newsletter subscriber to also win a set of signed books. Sign up to be a newsletter subscriber here if you aren’t already! It’s free, and a great way to keep up with the things that go on around here.
Third, click over to this photo on Instagram! Leave a comment on that specific photo and be sure you’re following me on Instagram.
Winners will be chosen using random.org. Prizes are provided by me, and winners must respond to my email or IG message within 48 hours or I’ll have to choose different winners. Prizes can only be shipped within the continental United States. So sorry. I’m not made o’money, y’all.
Nikki says
Well…I know I found my way here via another blog I read, and that was just last week…but I can’t for the life of me remember now which one it is! I’ve gone back and search, but to no avail…regardless, congrats on 9 years and I’m so happy to now be following along! Hoping to declutter quite a bit in my home over the next few months/years…hahaha! 🙂
Kimberly O. says
Hi, I think I found you by accident via Facebook. A random post displayed talking about how to declutter the house and while posting a snarky comment (yes, I did), I noticed a link to your page. (OR… I was searching for a specific podcast and yours came up in the search results.) Regardless, it was kind of just a random thing but boy am I glad!! While my home certainly wouldn’t be in one of those Better Homes & Garden type magazines, I did let my brother and sister-in-law stop by WITHOUT a weekend of deep cleaning. AND… this was his first time stopping by our house since we’ve lived in it (13 years).
Corrie says
Congratulations on 9 years! I know I never imagined I’d still be going years later when I started blogging on a whim!
Kailei says
I Am so glad I found ur blog it’s changed my point of view of mine my husband and 5 kids “stuff”. Kids and I tried day after day and week after week of survival mode… until I started listening and doing what “that white lady says”. (No offense we’re native Americans living on a Indian reservation in beautiful Idaho). My husband grew up with an organized and clean home with his grandparents & had multiple family members coming and going all the time for me it was my dad & I, so it was extremely hard for me to learn then implement ur techniques. Now we’re on our way to create the home I always dream about. Thank u “that white lady” from the bottom of my heart.
Dana White says
I love knowing what people call me in their families! And this one made me laugh!
Melissa says
I found you looking for cleaning podcasts. It was exactly what I was looking for and following your advice has made a huge difference in my home! Thank you!
Jenny says
I found you when searching for a podcast to listen to while cleaning. Everything you said just absolutely clicked. I immediately listened to all of the episodes from the beginning and it made such a difference. Even when I fall behind after a holiday or a busy week I know how to catch back up again. (Do the dishes!)
And now! Now! My third child just started part time preschool and the other two are in kindergarten and first grade so when I do my morning chores I actually get to enjoy a clean house for hours at a time!
Betsey says
I really can’t remember how I found you. I think it may have been through Facebook. I was following Flylady, so maybe I was searching on one of her mothods and I found you that way. I am so grateful for your candor and knowing that I’m not alone. I’ve checkout your books from the library, but having paper copies would be great to refer to them again, because as you said, it’s an ongoing process. I especially loved Giving God the Worst of Me. It’s time for a re-read. Thank you!
Kristin says
Hi, Dana–congratulations on nine years of blogging! If I can ever figure out what to write about, I’d love to do it, lol! First of all, thanks for writing your blog in the first place. I admire you for putting your vulnerability “out there” and giving the rest of us hope. I’m not brave enough to do that, but I am thankful I am not alone. I found your blog a couple of years ago; I was reading another blogger–I think it was Alli March at Scattered Squirrel. She was reviewing some books she liked to read. Yours was one of them, so I wanted to check it out. I’ve been loving your posts and podcasts ever since. Looking forward to another nine years!
Janie says
Yay for you! Happy nine years!!! I found this blog a few months ago when I was searching pinterest for organizing ideas. I LOVE that you post before pictures. Keeps it REAL!!!
Janie says
I found this blog a few months ago whole scanning pinterest for organizing motivation. Happy nine years!!!
Kathleen Sanderson says
I found you because I’ve been reading all of the books on decluttering and minimalism that I can find on KU and in Amazon’s free books for encouragement to keep going. There are lots of good books out there; lots of repetition, too, as they basically all say the same thing. Yours was by far the best one I found (for me). Practical, real-life — I wish I’d had it forty years ago as a young mother. I plan to buy paper copies for both of my nieces and all of my grandchildren, even my grandson.
Lauren says
Gosh, I’ve been reading along for years and years – not since the very beginning, but not too long after! I think I probably found your blog by just straight up googling “housekeeping advice for messy people” or something like that, and I was straight up hooked from the first post – I went back and read the entire archive and I’ve kept up ever since! I love your advice because I can actually do it – everything else I’ve tried is overwhelming, but your brain works like my brain, and your house looks like my house, and it is just so nice to know that I’m not alone.
Deb Sawyer says
I can’t honestly remember how I found you, but I often find that I end up in places that I need to be. Regardless, so glad I did. Thanks for all you do!!!
Jodie says
Congrats on 9 years!! I first heard about you from Amy at Raising Arrows. I followed you on Facebook for a little while before I got your first book on Audio. I listened to your book and that changed everything. I have now binge-listened to the podcast twice through. I was always overwhelmed with my house and could not figure out how to keep it under control and I have 7 kids!! My house is not perfect, but it is definitely manageable now and I like to say that we are usually “10-minutes away from company ready.”
Jean says
I think I came here for the skillet lasagna recipe, probably from Pinterest. This was a few years ago now. So glad I found your blog Dana! Your words have really helped me in a lot of different ways.
Nora says
I think Amy Lynn Andrews mentioned in her “Useletter” or on her website a “bundle” that included one of your e-books. She advised not to get the whole bundle if you were the type to research and research within every resource included in it, rather than getting started applying info from a few of the resources. That would be me! So I chose the one item I most needed, your e-book, and bought that instead of the bundle. I’m grateful for Amy’s advice and glad that I followed it.
Missing your podcast over the summer, I watched a few episodes of hoarders shows. Instead of your technique of “easy stuff first,” the experts were having people focus on a certain space first. During scenes such as people with empty pizza boxes all around being pressed to choose which sizes of knitting needles to get rid of, I was muttering “Nony’s advice would be better.”
Congrats on nine years, and thank you for sharing your decluttering expertise!
Jolene Collins says
I think it was a miracle. You appeared on my Facebook feed and the rest is history.
I love your “don’t open the door/Oreo threat above.” Your decluttering questions are so simple, yet brilliant.
The biggest thing you have helped me with is understanding how a number of people in my life actually think about “clutter.” It helps not to be so annoyed with them which is a very good thing.
Laura Wiles says
Three of my friends- maybe four?- shared some of your posts within a couple of weeks. I read them and thought, “She’s EXACTLY like me!” I clicked over to your page and started going through your back articles. After half an hour of laughing so hard I could barely see through the tears, my daughters came in to see what was so funny. They read a few articles with me, then, unlike their slothful mother, went to their room and started filling a box with things to give away! I was hooked! (And yes, I did eventually get moving and get rid of stuff, too.) 🙂 Thank you for your example and inspiration!
TLBR says
I love your site! Your book was a recommendation on Kindle Unlimited and honestly, I downloaded it because the price was right. I thought it would be great to start decluttering and if I liked your ideas I would buy the physical book.
Well, after reading the book and starting your podcasts, I’ve unfortunately realized that I am a fellow slob and that I don’t need another book in my house that will just get lost in the clutter.
Thank you for having the courage to start your blog and putting your reality out there for the rest of us to relate to. It totally makes sense now of why I can read all the organizing books and still live in a messy house. You have given me hope and I have incorporated doing dishes every day, 5 minute pickups, and even taking one layer off my garage. Thank you so much!!
Emily says
I heard about your podcasts a few months ago from someone in a decluttering group on Facebook. I started listening to the podcasts while decluttering my house, but after the first few (the ones that give your background story), I switched to reading the blog so I could catch up to the podcasts. I didn’t want to hear something new before I read it on the blog. Now I’m all caught up on the blog, and still listening to the podcasts while working on the house (I’m up to podcast #110-ish).
Christie says
I found you years and years ago back when I’d eagerly go to my Google Reader to see what my favorite bloggers were up to. I know I found you through another blogger…maybe The Happy Housewife?
Dena says
I found your blog several years ago through a post from Amy at Raising Arrows. I’m a mom of 8 kids, with 2 of them having achieved adulthood and moving out on their own. I enjoy your blog and think a lot like you do. Unfortunately, I haven’t attained the clutter-free home I’ve been craving for 17 years. Every time I work on a space and start to get it decluttered, my children reclutter it within an astonishingly short period of time. “Where does it all come from?,” I wonder on a daily basis. It’s amazing how many dirty dishes, dirty clothes, and trash 8 people can create in one day! I haven’t given up, though, and continue to declutter. One day I will conquer the clutter monster. Congratulations on 9 years of blogging.
Emily says
Nine years?! And I just found you! Every once in a while I Google “decluttering motivation”. This time I added “podcast” to the search because I wanted to clean while listening. You were listed in a top five list along with The Minimalists. You have decribed me to a tee many times in your first three episodes, especially the future self that will have it togethe, cleaning hidden paces first, and the astonishment of “how did this happen?!” after two days. We too find that having social engagements forces us to just keep it cleaner. I also tried to keep a room a day scedule, but fell off that pretty quick, as you say, life just happens. But I’m finding some comfort in your success thouh finding the idea that this won’t ever go away, daunting. Alas, time to sleep! Thank you!!
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Jo says
I found you just a few days ago whilst looking for good Podcasts to listen to. I am now working through them from the start to now – luckily I have a few long car journeys ahead!
I’ve spent years not understanding myself and you keep explaining it beautifully!!
I’m in the UK but will happily pay international shipping if that’s ok?!
Karoline says
Dear Dana. I came across your blog from your podcast. I was actively searching for someone else in my shoes: Someone who has to get her mess under control – but doesn’t have to enjoy the process or even be talented at it. Thank you for being that person.
I shared your blog on my blog a few months back. Last week I got an e-mail saying “Thank you for Dana White. I think she might have lifted me out of serious depression”. I’m sure you get a lot of that – and now you got one from across the Atlantic in Denmark ❤️
Best,
Karoline
Whitney du Menil says
I found you on a facebook group called “snail pace clutter removers”, and i am so glad I did! We share your books with all the new members :’)
i would love to win your books because i gave my copies to friends who needed your amazing advice!
Sarah says
Hi Dana! I’m not sure I’ve ever commented before but I love your blog……I found it by clicking through on a comment you had made on one of Money Saving Mom’s posts years ago, probably about 7-8 years ago at this point!! I then went back and read the whole blog from the start and it’s still one of my favorites! I about died when one of my friends had your book in her living room and I was all “Oh my gosh, I LOVE her!” haha!
Sara Harrison says
Can’t remember now where I found your blog–I’ve been reading it for years. Five at least. It’s one of my favorites, and it always makes me happy when you have a new written post, especially with pictures. (I’m not a podcast gal). It’s an encouragement to me, your perseverance, your faith, your practicality, your sense of humor.
Al says
Hi Dana. I found you while reading a goodreads review of the Marie Kondo book The Magic of Tidying Up. People were saying that while the advice was good, it didn’t seem to account for kids or spouses. And was just nonrealistic with kids. Someone mentioned that anyone who was finding it difficult instead go check out Nony the Slob.
And then I spent all my life reading your blog from the beginning because it was amazing and so helpful. My house is nowhere near as good as I want it to be, but it’s so much better. And amazingly enough, when I do the daily tasks, everyone else in the house suddenly picks up more often!
Lea says
I found you searching for something besides Fly Lady because I couldn’t even manage that😱! You were the first person who read my brain patterns and taught me how to re-train them!!!!
Yaaay for 9 years, may you have many more!!!!
Amber says
I found your blog about five-ish months ago and started reading from the first post… I actually google searched “slob house cleaning”… It has made a world of difference! Now I’m catching up on the podcasts as I wait (rather impatiently) for new posts to come out. 🙂
Melissa says
I found you through a random Google search when I was fed up with my house 5 or 6 years ago. I love your thought process! It makes me feel less crazy, haha.
Pam H. says
Happy Anniversary!!!
First I found you on Google when I googled “I’m a fly lady failure”. Then I found you on a guest post on… I believe…. Raising Arrows? I’m pretty sure. I figured two references to you in the same week were a sign from above. So I joined your blog and never looked back!
Pamela says
Congratulations on nine years! I’m pretty sure I found you through Pinterest, but honestly it’s probably been 7 years, and there’s been a few night’s sleep and more than a few dishwasher loads done because “Dana says to run it, even though it’s not completely full.” The decluttering advice has changed my house, but your cooking hints have revolutionized our life. DH Ron never liked my attempts at freezer cooking. Your style has made it easy to get a dinner we all love on the table in 15 minutes from walking in the door!
Melinda says
Hey Dana, I call you Nony still!! You’ll always be Nony in my heart! I found you about 3 years ago, after I started my blog. Stella Lee from Purfylle.com recommended you. Whew! So glad she did!! You inspired me to keep going!
I bought your Without losing your mind book. I read your ebook About Giving God the worst, and I can’t wait till I can buy your new one.
You also taught me to spell y’all correctly! I’ m 57, and had always spelt it ya’ll.
Thank you!! Your videos are always a pleasure to watch, and your podcasts to listen to. You were the first “keeping it real” slogger I’d ever found. My people!
I love you so much!!
Tiana McKinney says
I found you several years ago by googling “what to do if you’re a slob”. I’ve been reading at least 5 years by now and doing my own deslobification journey!
Aimee says
Congrats! I have no idea how I found you, it’s been years. Maybe a link from another blog or just googling. I am so thankful I did find you! You are the evidence I needed and gave me the language I needed to explain myself to my husband. Your blog has been good for my marriage.
Heather says
I think I also found you randomly, from somewhere else. I kept coming back to your posts, your books, etc., because your approach is so relatable to me. I will, sadly, never have any OCD tendencies….I will never be a freak….I will always just be fighting against my own snobby tendencies, one day at a time. But, that’s ok….and now I know that I’m not alone!!
Sheri says
I probably found you through someone else’s link to one of your blog posts. I don’t know how long ago that was, but definitely two houses ago … so that’s at least 7 years! Congrats!
Meemaw says
Honestly, I thought that you could have been my granddaughter when I first found you! We have a lot of the same traits, beauty, wittiness, perseverance, commitment, a big ol’ heart, humor, slobbiness, and love!
They say some things skip a generation. From what I read, only the slobbiness part skipped your mama. I’m sure she’s as proud of a peacock regarding your accomplishments and for finding a treatment that serves many! May God bless you and yours now and forever. Love ya!
Signed, A Meemaw in treatment
Lindsay Milner says
I’m so glad I found you 🙂 It was from a pinterest post, maybe about three years ago? It was headed ‘How to declutter without making a bigger mess.’ That really called to me, cos that was always my problem – I’d end up with a pile of stuff semi sorted, and never get back to it. I read it, thought it was genius, and still recommend that blog to people now.
Laura says
Congrats on 9 years! You make me feel better when I see the chaos – I don’t need to be cured, I just need to treat it!
shelly says
I think I found you thru an e bundle but it could have been a google search. See how organized I am?? Lol. Congrats on your 9 yrs and success on the blog. You have great advice with a good wallop of humor. Love that!!
debbie says
thank you so much for sharing and motivating…you are awesome 🙂
Elizabeth A says
I found your book on Amazon. What surprises me about 10 years into my journey is I still find things to donate, all the time!
Toni Dennis says
Thanks so much for your advice! I appreciate you! <3
Kirsten says
Before your podcast, Instagram account, books and your new slick not as relate-able professional image, I found a small, honest to a fault blog and read every post from the 1st post to the then 3rd year. I had found my kin. I still love your gut level honest writing; it is just hard to find true substance these days among the ads, promotions and multiple platforms. sigh.
Audrey says
I was first introduced to your books on audible and then picked up your books. What a game changer for me! I’ve finally found my tribe. Keep it coming!
Christy says
Congrats on 9 years! I found you on Pinterest. I’ve been an email subscriber since I found you!
Susan Kaplan says
I am a newsletter subscriber, but I cannot remember how I found you in the first place. Nevertheless, you are an inspiration to me in my ongoing deslob efforts, and I am sure having your books would inspire me even more.
Jessica says
I’m new to your blog, and I’m in desperate need of your help lol. I’m a single mom of 4 and I feel like I try so hard but always end up feeling ashamed of our messy home. Glad to have found you. Congrats on 9 years!
Take care,
Jessica
Maryland
Bernie says
I found your book How to manage your home without losing your mind while doing an internet search of my local library’s catalog to see if they had some other homekeeping/decluttering book. I checked out the book I was looking for and grabbed yours too. I don’t even remember what the other book was, it didn’t help at all. On the other hand, your book which I grabbed purely because of the catchy title was the first time I’ve ever felt understood in my housekeeping struggles. I ended up buying a copy. Later I decided to read the blog and slowly worked my way through all nine years in about 6 months. I bought your second book without hesitation (though I haven’t had a chance to read it yet)!
Meemaw says
Ooops…didn’t include how I found you….well, I’m a big believer in ask, believe and receive and one day, after many days of praying, I stumbled across your blog. It was divine intervention I say.
I still chuckle when I think about thise waders you bought your husband at a yard sale….not only have I bought stuff for my hubby of almost 50 years! But for any relative or friend that comes to mind. I’m very generous. My grandbabies would adk, Meemaw, what did ya get this week? We’d ooh and ahh, but then their mama wised up and said that it had to stay here….so, for years, my husband and I slept with about 100 stuffed animals every night until they agreed that we could pass them on to our local police department to hand out to children in not so good places or situations such as car accidents.
Continue on Dana, and don’t forget to ask, believe and receive what God has in store for you. He’ll put the right people at the right time in your life. Trust me. I found you!
Allison says
I believe I found out about you through a facebook decluttering group. I am in the process of digging out. I’m liking what I see on your page so far!
Kelley says
I found your blog by signing up for an organization webinar, I think. I had been following a lot of different blogs and also bought some ultimate bundles. Could’ve been any of those now that I think of it. I am just thankful that I found your blog, because I now know that I’m not the only one out there with this problem of needing to declutter. Other methods did not work, but yours did, like you understand me, thank you! You are real and very funny and make it fun to learn how.
Renee says
I found you on Pinterest at just the right time! I was about to have a nervous breakdown because of my messy house. I felt like everything was spiraling out of control. I really thought that I was just destined to live in a messy, cluttered house forever. I was tired of fighting my husband every week when he cam home from work & the house looked just as bad as it had when he left. I was tired of fighting my kids, who were old enough to help, but didn’t. I have listened to your your entire podcast over the last few months. It has literally saved my sanity! Thank you, Dana, for being so real & honest. Thank you for making the “deslobification” process more attainable for me!
Johnny Wren says
I came in via Pinterest last spring when I was about to give up on all the household organizing blogs where “but how do I START???” never seemed to get answered. I’m not perfect but I (mostly) run the dishwasher every night now!
I’ve actually been thinking about starting my own anonymous blog to try to get over my own shame about my housekeeping.
Mary S. says
I found you years ago by searching for decluttering posts. I felt like you were my sister from another Mother when I started reading your posts. I said this woman gets it when I first saw the term”Slob vision”. I backslide quite often and know my house will never be Southern Homes and Gardens ready but at least it looks a lot better than when I started the De-slobafication.
Leann says
Congrats on 9 years! I don’t recall how I stumbled across you (I think Facebook), but I love reading your posts and listening to the podcast because I can SO relate! When I need to get my hiney in gear (always!), I put on the podcast & get to it…little by little makes a huge difference!
Jill says
In less than a month, your podcasts coached me toward my goal. I found you via google searches, links, and landed on podcast 52, letting it go if it makes my head explode. So I grabbed a construction size garbage bag, a pile of plaid dollar store donation bags, and made my feet move, per your recommendations. Three weeks later, I have a second pickup from pickupplease.org tomorrow and am enjoying my walk-in closet, which used to require mountain goat skills for unearthing my buried belongings. Thank you Dana (a.k.a. Nony) for having the courage to bare it all so I can enjoy my space again.
sue says
I am so glad I found you. I am working my way through your you tube videos from the beginning. We are planning our retirement move across the country and it is unbelievable how much STUFF you accumulate in almost 50 years of marriage 42 of them in the same house!
Liz Ayers says
Thank you for 9 years of blogging. I read a sample of your book”How to Manage Your Home without Losing your Mind” and it made sense and better than that definitely seemed doable.
I am 3 weeks in and I’m keeping up with the daily items and its working. I am eventually going to share this with my son who is in college-he thinks I’m a anti-clutter, cleaning fanatic-if he only knew how tired I was from trying other systems with tons of rules and tons of questions.
Thank you again and have a great day.
Liz Ayers
Sue says
First off; i wish i would have started following you that 9plus years ago. You are a true inspiration!! Thank you!!
Cecily says
I found you in the library! I read your book How to Manage Your Home Without Losing Your Mind and it made so much sense to me! I’m glad I’m not the only one with this struggle!
Judy says
I found your latest book at my library and immediately subscribed to your blog, because your methods work!! I’d love my own set of your books. Here’s a hug for your wonderful deslobbing advice over the years! Please continue writing and inspiring. Thank you.
Krissy Ann says
I think I found your blog by googling something about cleaning, but I don’t remember what. I have been amazed by how much we think a like. I have been doing my dishes every day for around a month! At first, I would listen to your podcasts while doing dishes, but now I have to find other times since the dishes are done so frequently. Thank you for giving me hope!
Fellow_DeSlobificator says
Nine years! Congratulations! I found you just THIS year when I was going through general emails and found one.more.article on the Mari Kondo method. As usual, when I read it, the walls started closing in, my anxiety levels spiked, and I started to hyperventilate. That is simply too rigid for someone who is trying to learn to keep a happy, healthy home but not sweat the small stuff. Somewhere along the way, there was a reference or a link to your blog, I read every post and ordered your “Decluttering at the Speed of Life” book, and I’ve been enjoying DeSlobificators Anonymous — or not so anonymous now! — ever since. Keep blogging and writing and making videos! I’m loving them and they truly are so helpful and reassuring.
Brenda Owens says
I found you on Pinterest and happily signed up for your newsletter. I suffer from chronic illness and work so my dis-orderliness really is hard to beat. I love your sense of humor. Thanks
PJ says
I can’t remember how I found you, but I do know that yours is the only blog I read religiously. I love your books and I’m constantly passing your advice on to my friends and co-workers. I just told one the other day to stop living in her “next” house! LOL! Thanks so much for bringing clarity to my slob brain!
Jenny says
I think I found you on facebook looking for new ways to stay organized! Love your tips and would love your book too!
Nyaya says
I think I found you through Pinterest. Lord knows how many cleaning and organizing pins I have posted there….that’s some major deslobification for another time! I love your books and podcasts!! Feels good to see a messy kitchen and know that someone else truly gets it!! My kids hear you on the podcast at school pickup and are like, “oh you’re listening to Dana again. Yep, yes I am!!” 😉 Progress is being made….best advice ever, just take it there now! So simple, yet so effective and room/life changing!! Thank you!!!! 🙏🏻😂🤗
C. Tyler says
Hi! I found you this past summer when I heard you on a Christian radio station being interviewed. When I heard you speak I felt like you were describing my life! I’m a very detailed person, first born, but discouraged perfectionist. I present myself as very organized, because my brain is organized, but not my house…so I never feel comfortable having people over…so I feel disobedient when I read my Bible and it says be hospitable…as well as respect my husband and be submissive to his desires, such as a magazine worthy clean, organized home. I’m trying to impliment your techniques, but it’s hard to change years of habits and mess.
Amelie says
I heard about your blog and podcasts on the 40 bags in 40 days facebook group. I have read the Decluttering book and just received the cleaning book from Amazon….still working on implementing all of your suggestions. 🙂
Bethdaniels says
I found you from another decluttering blog, she commented you were funny so I tried you,
Kelly says
I found you by reading one of your books. I was inspired and have been trying, no really trying to declutter.
I listened to your book on CD and it would be nice to own one.
Faye says
Shoot – I can’t win cuz I’m in Canada! But I found you through Ultimate Bundles – and I was already checking out these books. So I guess I’ll head back to Amazon! Still enjoying your blog and info! Congrats on 9 years!!!
Julie says
Found you through Pinterest- an organization post. I’m always interested… even though I’m a minimalist! Go figure. I’ve stayed because I love your sense of humor!!
Cris says
I found you about a month ago, not sure how, my internet searching is about as random as my housekeeping. I’m loving every minute of reading your blog, I’m in January, 2011 right now. You are my soul sister!!! Everything that you write I have experienced, felt, done, etc. My children are grown adults now, how I wish I would have found this in 2009 when my oldest was just beginning his Junior year of high school. I would be so much farther ahead by now. I grew up 2nd oldest in a family of 12 children. My mom was organized and clean, but our house was always “lived in”, mainly our bedrooms, my mom’s motto was “if it’s not in the hamper it will not get washed, I will not enter your rooms to search for it. If you want to live in a pigsty, I will just close the door.” This method drove my husband batty!!! My children have survived living in a very cluttered home and now have very uncluttered homes and apartments, so I guess my slobdom did not carry over. 🙂 Keep making me smile, sister.
Katie says
I don’t remember for sure, but I know I clicked over here after you were on the Sorta Awesome podcast. A good friend of mine also recommended your books.
Carrie says
I think I heard you on a podcast. Perhaps Anne Bogel or Lazy Genius? Anyway, it prompted me to subscribe to your blog and read your first book, so hooray!
Mary Beth Schwarz says
On January 2, 2017, How to Manage Your Home was in the list of sale Kindle books and it was the most helpful book I had ever read. It was awesome to hear you read the audiobook, so I had to have both versions of Decluttering at the Speed of Life. THANKS! Mary Beth
Marc Thomas says
Congratulations on your 9th year doing this blog! How does it feel?
D Thurman says
I think I found your first book on Audible. Bought that & switched between listening/reading with a borrowed library book copy. Thanks for being honest with admitting your slobby ways. I TOTALLY understand the slob brain concept now. You’re truly helping people! Thanks again:-) muah
Cheri says
I have been following you long enough that I don’t remember where I found you, but I am glad I did!
Prism says
I found you last week, and I was referred by a friend on FaceBook. I would LOVE your books, because I am just beginning this process!
TL says
Congratulations on 9 years! Time flies when you’re having fun! 🙂
I wish I had known about you sooner. I must have been under a rock.
I discovered you on a Pinterest post last week and have been looking at your previous posts ever since. Trying to catch up so that I can then start my own de-slobbing.
Thank you for sharing your experiences and remedies.
Sally says
Found you through the Ace Your Space series from earlier this year! My space is DEFINITELY not aced yet!
Susan Cheatham says
My daughter-in-law was telling me a couple of good podcasts to subscribe to and yours was one of them. My kids, unfortunately, have “pack rats” on all sides of the family for several generations back. I’ve been working on de-cluttering my house for several months now and your blog and podcast have helped motivate me. Thanks for the encouragement.
Carolyn Cornish says
9 years ago I found you by browsing on the internet. Looking for help. I first thought well I don’t have a dishwasher so I can’t follow her. Was I wrong! My older sisters tormented me with the name slob…so that was a challenge…but I got over it. Thank the Lord.
Tabitha says
Although I don‘t have the chance to win your book set (how I wish I could!) because I‘m from Europe, I wanted to leave a comment. I found you about five years ago via pinterest and since then I read literally everything from you. You really gave me hope for my home! It‘s far away from being „perfect“, but it‘s so much easier now to let things go. And I enjoy looking at decluttered spaces so much! Before knowing you, I used to do it with the piles-method. And I created a bigger mess each time. But this mess gets smaller now. Thank you so much, Nony!
Susan says
I found you when I quit my paying job and became a domestic engineer, again. Started googling organization and cleaning, found your site and read from the beginning of the blog. House is nowhere where it should be, but, I do dishes every day and have a laundry routine.
Deborah says
Here is what I love: You have helped me understand that keeping a house under control is WORK–just like staying in financial, physical, or spiritual shape, or child-rearing, or whatever. And that it just because it’s work doesn’t mean it needs to be drudgery. I actually enjoy de-cluttering and cleaning up now because I can do it a little at a time, note that there was iterative improvement, and not beat myself up when life happens and the house goes to pot for a few days/weeks. Thank you.
Kathy says
You have NO idea how much I need this help!!! Thank you for the giveaway!! 🤗
Renée B. says
I think I got connected to you through one of the bundles I bought. I have descended into slobiness since I got married and had kids, and your blogs have been helpful in saving me from despair!
Rachel B says
Congrats on your 9 year blog anniversary. I need to get with the program, and yours seems wonderful for me; it is helping me so much. Thanks for the book giveaway !
Karen Jakowicz says
Congratulations Dana on 9 years of blogging, that’s quite an accomplishment! I think I found your blog through another blog, can’t remember which one but I’m glad I did!
JH says
Congratulations! I have been following you for a few years. Had seen a link through an article on FB and clicked as fast as I could. You totally ‘got’ me and you spoke my language. I’ve been plagued by clutter all 50 years of my life. I live alone now and I have made some progress. Just today I threw out 17 boxes in my storage room that I was keeping ‘because I might need a box for something.’ You know, something to put more clutter in lol! For the first time in 15 years I was able to close the door (which for some reason swings IN to the room) on the storage room!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks for all you do Dana.
Connie says
Congratulations! My daughter told me about your first book, so I read it and started reading your blog and listening to your podcasts.
The thing that really struck me about your book was that it takes doing a series of simple steps over and over to maintain a space. I have been donating for years and stopped the flow of non consumable into my home.
Since I have all of your books ebook format, please don’t add me in your generous give away. I just wanted to comment that you have made a big impact on my life.
Alison says
I discovered your podcast on Stitcher recently and have started listening from the first podcast. Right away it sounded like I could have been the one speaking! I’ve been listening while getting ready for a kids’ consignment sale. Once that’s done, I’m hoping the momentum continues through the rest of the house!
Beth Reed says
I came to your workshop at the Becoming Conference and enjoyed it immensely. Congratulations on 9 years!
Sara says
Do you remember Linky parties? I think that’s how I found you way back when. You were still Nony, I scoured your website for your name to no avail. I found your blog around the same time I found the nester and likemotherlikedaughter.org. Your and auntie Leila have been a huge impact on who I am today.
Dana White says
Yes! Linky parties were the main way I grew the blog there in the beginning!
Amber says
I’m sure you were recommended from another Blog, but I can’t remember which one. Love your podcasts! They make my day!
Joyce says
Oh my! How did I find you? Likely through Sheila Wray Gregoire… an email offer. And desperation!
ann says
Can’t even remember when or how I found you….. but you are so helpful. I am a piler, if there isn’t a “to do” pile then I must be done with everything!!! My children have taken this as “you don’t have to put anything away.” Finding a balance is hard…decided that children left messes earn extra cleaning duty, so I have something to be happy about when I find a left mess! Keep up the good work!
JoAnna says
I can’t remember how I found you. I think I might’ve followed a link on a message board post about decluttering.
Lisa says
love your books and everything else! It’s such a relief to know that there are people like me out there!
Lindsay says
I’ve read for years, no idea where or when it started. But even if i haven’t read for a while or been good about the daily things, your “way” has become a part of my brain. Mondays are laundry, Tuesdays are bathrooms and I HAVE to sweep the floor and run the dishwasher every night. Thank you!!
Amanda says
Dana!
I’m sure I found you in a desperate and frantic search for “how to clean a messy house and get it ready for guests”, and that must have been 4 years ago now.
Girl. I love you. Unapologetically.
I could never have figured any of it out on my own. You got me. We had the same thoughts. I felt like I’d been saved from myself.
Now you have me waking up in the middle of the night to run the dishwasher if I forgot to start it in the rush of the kids bedtime, or fell asleep putting them to sleep lol.
My main bathroom is always ready for guests.
I can get the main level picked up in a few minutes.
I always have pre-cooked ground beef and pre-cooked chicken in my freezer.
I always look for trash, then the easy stuff.
Thank you, a million times over, for everything. You will never really know just how many of us you have helped. 🙂
Krysten T says
I don’t know how I found you but I’m so glad I did! When my kitchen gets overwhelming I just tell myself “Do the easy stuff first.” It makes a big difference and then I move on to the other stuff.
Heidi says
I’m not totally sure how I found you but It was most likely a google search like ” HELP I’M A SLOB, HOW CAN I STOP.”
Rosemary says
Hi Dana, I found you from Jamie Balmet’s site the 2018 Deep Dive Summit. You will be one of the workshop leaders.
I can cleanup and declutter but it doesn’t take long to be a mess again. Looking for some habits that will keep me on track daily.
Thanks
I am not on instagram.
Lyn Carver says
I was online searching for how to start cleaning my hourly messy house when I had no idea where to start, and your website came up immediately. You’ve changed my life for the better! My house is still messy, but there is noticeable progress. Most important are the changes in my habits and in my head. Thank you!
Carolyn says
I found your site through an online ADHD group and it’s been a great help, unlike those other trendy types of decluttering that just don’t work for us at all. Great it’s been going so long and hope you keep going as long as you enjoy doing it!
Rosalie says
I think I found you via a free or low cost kindle book
I have listened to your podcasts some since then.
I need to dive in as I am drowning in piles!!
Yvette says
Hi! I’ve been reading for a few years, so I’m not sure how I found you. I’m thinking someone shared you on a Facebook group. Your site is the only site that clicked when it comes to cleaning and declutteting. It was a lifesaver when I kept searching for ‘solutions.’ I don’t have it all together, but I’m in a much better place thanks to your blog.
Candace Malone says
I found you through a cleaning group I am in on Facebook. During the last 6 years, I have been in school, moved across the country (twice) and had my son. We have a LOT of crap in our 2 bedroom apartment, to the point where we are running out of space, even though we shouldn’t be. I have finally made time to start reading blog posts and listening to your podcasts. I am getting started by doing small things here and there. I did my linen closet yesterday. Tomorrow will be bookshelves. Thank you for starting your site, blog, and podcasts, and for taking the time to write the books. I can’t wait until I make it through my entire apartment! The sentimental clutter will be the hardest part for me, for sure!
Rose says
I first found you on the Internet. Then I lost you and found you again on Ace Your Space. Glad I found you again.
Corinth Milikin says
When searching for audio books available from my local library, I found and listened to Decluttering at the Speed of Life. Of all the books I have read or listened to in recent years, it was the one that really made a big and immediate difference in my home. Looking up your blog and signing up for emails was the obvious next step.
I recently purchased 2 copies from Amazon so that I can share them with friends, although I think the audio version was better for me. Almost every day, I stop and ask myself–if I needed this, where would I look for it first, then I put it there. Thanks for revealing what should have been obvious but wasn’t.
Debbie says
Congratulations! I do like how you explain how organizing works for you and how it isn’t easy!
Debbie says
I found you thorugh Facebook. One of my FB friends liked your page and I have been trying to declutter for a few years now and I am still in the process. I like how real you are and how there are some organizing solutions that don’t work for all people.
Blythe says
I found your blog through a recommendation in a bipolar support group on facebook. i found it around the beginning of this year. I was depressed and it was perfect. I have since come back to just do the dishes many times, but I also have cleaned my bathroom many weeks in a row and helped my kids learn. 5 min pickups rock. Im so glad you didnt stop 3 months in.
Sue says
So happy you are back from your summer hiatus! I need to be re-motivated to get rid of all of this clutter!
You are my inspiration!
Catherine says
I found you on pinterest! Yay! Now I enjoy your blog and newsletter. Thank you!
jackie says
I don’t remember how I found you, perhaps from something related to your first book? I loved you the moment I did and quickly subscribed to your blog. I was so happy to know there are others like me! I suggested the library purchase your latest book which they did and it’s often checked out. I’m pretty sure that means others love it as much as me 🙂
Kristie Kienstra says
I am not even sure that I have “magically” landed in the right place for the giveaway but here I am…I have purchased all of the books aside from ‘Worst’ and I have doubled over in laughter while reading thinking we are kindred spirits. I mean, who doesn’t need three dining room tables? You are such a breath of fresh air and the last thing I need in my chaotic life is another book. That belief led me to purchase the iBook versions of your books and that was a bad move. I need tangible paper to highlight and remind me periodically why I am such a mess. Reference is my friend as my chaotic self tends to forget. My apologies for getting carried away but I write this in hopes that the rest of you realize that you are not alone. We are on a path to cleanliness and it takes a tribe. What I would really love is for Dana to make a personal visit to my home and have a good laugh at my mess but I am open to settling for a book series if that is the best I can do. Cheers to all of you and know that you are never alone. We all just need to have a sense of humor and a lot of motivation.
Janice Thompson says
I found you via Pinterest while searching for info on how to declutter. Your name “A Slob Comes Clean” was intriguing because I have many slob tendencies. At last—someone who understands me! I immediately fell in love with your common sense approach because it’s doable.
I had read the book by the adorable little Japanese girl Marie Kondo, but never could get past the clothes, and never could bring myself to pile all my clothes on the floor. Your approach of starting with what is visible has made a huge difference.
I am currently in a FB challenge to get rid of 2018 things in 2018. I’m at 800, give or take a few. This is pretty good considering the fact that the year was half over when I started.
Anyway, thanks for helping me my house already looks a ton better!
MaryJo says
Congratulations on your anniversary. Thank you for all you do for us slobs. Your ah-ha moment: “Containers are to contain” was also an eye-opener for me as well. I look forward to all your posts, videos, and books. Again, congratulations!
Erica F says
I think I found you through Facebook. As someone else also said, I was previously following Fly Lady, and I think it led me to you, which has got in my life so much better. Love your ideas, perspective, and real life approach to actually making things work. Thanks so much, “slob lady”!
Cris says
About 2 yrs before “How to Manage…” book came out I clicked on a link to your blog & liked your fb page. I read it here & there, but it wasn’t until I read that book where I heard the whole story when I realized you were my people! I cried. The fantasy/reality opener of each chapter might have been my favorite part. Life-changing. Thank you!
Amy E says
Oh, I found you through a decluttering challenge. That blogger had a decluttering party where you were one of the speakers. It was earlier this spring. I believe you cleaned your living area in front of the fireplace. (I think that was it.) You spoke about how to clean in the few minutes you might have. There were books you donated. One you had a better, nicer copy of. You asked a question about each item: if I was looking for this, would I naturally look for it here?
Pen says
I am not sure how or where I found you but I’m glad I did! 😊😊 Congrats on 9 years and thank you for all your help….
Rebecca Rempert says
I found you through a websites special on your books. I’m very organized but your books have helped me so much.
Samantha says
My sweet friend told me about your blog. I love listening to your podcast and have already learned so much! Can’t wait to learn more!
Candace Malone says
I found you through a cleaning group I am in on Facebook. During the last 6 years, we have moved across the country twice, had our son, and I have been in school earning my bachelor’s degree. I finally finished my schooling in June and now have time to focus on myself and my home. I am starting with small things, like the linen closet and bookcases. Once I get my home under control, I will be working on my parents’ home.
Rita Hay says
Hi Dana, I am not sure how I found you, but I am glad I did. I am still a work in progress. I have read your first book. Thank you for the chance to win a signed copy of your books.
Mariah Ellis says
As a fellow professional organizer, I love your different perspective on this process! Congratulations on 9 years and the books!
(here as an entry for the giveaway as well)
Mary says
I found you at the beginning of this summer when I went to borrow FlyLady’s ebook again from the library Overdrive app to try to “get back on track”. Your book Decluttering at the Speed of Life came up as “other books you may enjoy” at the bottom of the page. I then did a duck duck go search on your name and found your blog. I have been Decluttering all summer, as well as developing my own daily checklist including, of course, dishes, which has made a huge difference! My husband noticed and commented that the house is looking better. I listen to your podcasts too when I am working on hand wash and loading the dishwasher! I am so glad I found you.
Diane May says
Oh Dana 😂 I discovered you through The Thankful Homemaker blog. I really enjoy your blog – it’s wonderful to know I’m not alone in my desire to have a clean, organized home but utterly lack the knowledge of how to get there!
tammy says
I came across your podcast somewhere around your 2-year mark. I was browsing through itunes and thought I’d give you a try. Wow, so glad I did! I listened to your podcasts from the beginning of your story and finally had to call my mom and say, “You have GOT to listen to this lady on itunes, she thinks exactly like we do!”. My mother ended up calling me back later and telling me about how funny you were and all the challenges you had just like us and I’m like “Yeah, I know! I’m the one that called and told you, remember!” Thank you, “Nony”, for turning our lives around! By the way, I’ll be giving my copies of your books to a good home when I win your signed ones…..I have all of your books in hard copy, kindle, and audio format so I can read or listen to them whenever I’m needing inspiration!
Connie Cordingley says
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Mary Cavaciuti says
Congratulations on 9 years! Keep up the good work!
Linda Bolotin says
I am so glad you are back! I don’t remember how I found you… I think one of your books popped up when I was looking on Amazon. I bought them both and they were life changing for me! I love your sense of humor! I am so thankful for all of your help!
Nicole says
Congrats on 9 years!
Judy says
Hi Dana,
Congratulations on nine years of blogging! You are a gift to all of us who have difficulty getting our houses clean. I appreciate your work and writings very much. Thank you!
Blessings,
Judy
Julia says
I found you through a relative recommending your book! They said it was their newest rave in their house and thought everyone should read it! I agree!
Marion Blakely says
Congratulations on nine years! I found you through a comment on the 40 Bags in 40 Days Facebook page, by White House, Black Shutters. I really like your comment about “where would I look for this first.” I have been in this house since 1973, and my kids’ standing joke is that I can’t die until my house gets clean, to which I reply, I guess I will be immortal. Since I know I am not, I am trying to clean out over 4500 square feet (house, basement, and garage), while I am still able. Keep up the good work!
Kristin Swank says
I found you randomly while googling, trying to find a way to get my house under control. It was super strange to see these feelings I have had for my entire life put into actual words. My Mom is a very clean person (she enjoys organizing!) and my Mother-in-law is potentially even more clean, and my Grandma too. I could not figure out how they have it under control, and I can’t even seem to keep my coffee table clear of clutter for one freaking week. But then I read a post about how you don’t see the clutter, how it might be super obvious to other people, and yet you do not see it. I thought “YES! This is me to a tee!!!” I even sent the post to my Mom and Mother-in-law to show them that it is not just me, lol.
Ash Greymane says
I saw your first book on “Bookbub” and bought it, then coiled up on the sofa to read. It made me laugh…a few chapters in, something began intruding on my radar: the thighmaster thing they used to sell on tv comfortably sitting beside me. I was determined to ignore it, then thought “aww, sh*t”. Got up, trotted my butt to where it goes, then laughed again. Since then-roughly 2 weeks ago-a small load has gone to charity and I have …..okay my relentlessly practical 14 year old son and I….have uncluttered several areas. Your book motivated me, and I appreciate that.
Lori says
I found you many years ago, I think through MoneySavingMom. There is another blog that I sometimes read and she is a Type A-perfectionist-loves to organize-never anything out of place person, and she once said something to the effect of “If you want to organize your house, you are going to look to someone whose house is organized, not someone with a messy house,” and I thought “No, she’s wrong, because she doesn’t get the struggle that many of us have. Dana is the one that I listen to because she GETS it!” So many times I find myself saying “Do the easy stuff first” and “Just take it there now”. Many thanks for years of help!
I don’t do Facebook or Instagram, and rarely listen to podcasts, so please keep your blog going!
Erin says
Congratulations! I found you during a 40 bags in 40 days challenge… which I failed. I’m constantly looking for new techniques in hopes that any one of them will stick with me.
Carrie says
cannot for the life of me remember how i came across your book, so it was God. couldn’t believe you thought the way i thought in DETAIL about so many things. Grateful the Lord led you on this journey bc in the end it’s all a spiritual growth matter! thanks for sharing!
Kim says
I receive the Page Chaser Deals email from Harper Collins. “How to Manage Your Home…” was an ebook deal several months back. I thought, “let me see if this author has a blog,” because I didn’t even think I had time to read because there was so much to do around my home! You do. I listened. I was identifying with you right away. But when you mentioned TPAD, I was hooked. I thought, “THIS IS ME!” I’ve been a fan, a follower, a listener, and a reader (well, audible) ever since. I recommend your ‘everything’ to all my friends and sometimes random acquaintances. Even if someone doesn’t have clutter issues, your style and demeanor are so welcoming. And girl, God made you funny! The fact that you’re a follower of Christ just completely sealed the deal for me. Love you!
Kimberly says
I found you this morning from a Google search “I don’t know how to clean.” So far you truly seem to be more like me than I could’ve hoped for which is fabulous because I need help!
I am a young mother of 3 girls so as you can imagine the clothes alone are overwhelming but so is everything else. I grew up with a mother from an older generation who was always taught never to waste anything or told that you might be able to use that later you better keep it. This turned all of the 9 children in her family into hoarders (some are just more organized and hide their problem better) these teachings were later was passed down to all of my cousins and I. We all turned into the exact same kind of hoarders. On top of being a hoarder my mom was a single working mom and just didn’t prioritize cleaning. So here I am 24 years later hoping to break the cycle for my girls and not get a migraine just from stepping through my door. I want a clean home and I am determined to have it!!
I can’t wait to explore your blog more, check out your podcasts, and creep your IG.
Stacey says
I found you randomly searching for a podcast about cleaning while doing the dishes one day and boy oh boy am I’m glad I did! You’re so much more relatable than some of the other cleaning/organizing bloggers I’ve followed! Thank you so much for your honesty and practical advice and tips!
Deanna says
I have read your blog for years so I don’t remember exactly how I found you. Probably another blog or Facebook post, but I do remember as soon as I saw your blog name, I knew this was the blog for me. I read every single post from the beginning. I was along for the ride the first summer you taught your children to clean. Love reading your blog and seeing that there are other people like me in this world.
Deanna says
I have read your blog for years so I don’t remember exactly how I found you. Probably another blog or Facebook post, but I do remember as soon as I saw your blog name, I knew this was the blog for me. I read every single post from the beginning. I was along for the ride the first summer you taught your children to clean. Love reading your blog and seeing that there are other people like me in this world.
Sarah says
I found your blog several years ago, not long after I started having children. I had quickly become overwhelmed with housekeeping as I struggled in my transition to wife and mother. Your blog gave me so much hope as I worked to get my home under control!
sharon kelly says
I love your blog. You are doing wonderful work.
Michelle says
I can’t remember exactly how I found you, but I’m so glad I did! I think either a friend had recommended your blog, or I happened to read a post that someone shared on facebook. I read your blog when I need some encouragement and cheering up (other times too, but it cracks me up that I read a cleaning blog for this!). Your acceptance of who you are, sometimes makes it easier for me to accept myself for who I am. Thank you, Dana!
Jill says
No idea how I found you. I’ve been looking for answers since my days with the S.H.E. system of 3×5 cards the Slob Sisters taught. I still use the cards, and my house is still messy. It was refreshing to find someone else that couldn’t be “cured”, only treated. Over the years I’ve taken tips from several different organizing and cleaning websites. Coming up with my own version of how to keep a (fairly) clean house has been years in the making. It’s good to have a kindred spirit at my side!
JoDi says
I believe I found your blog when you guest posted on another site, but I don’t recall for sure. I just know I’ve been reading from very early on and went back and read from the beginning shortly after I found you. I did not start listening to your podcast right away, but I did start several months ago, and now I’m enjoying listening to the podcast archive while I do yardwork or clean. Love you and your family, and #2 on your list made me laugh out loud! Congrats on 9 years!
brenda says
They say misery loves company, so I guess we feel better knowing we aren’t the only ones having trouble keeping things together. I can’t remember for sure how I found you, but I am always looking for that magic bullet. I love your honest style and good-enough attitude.
Lila B. says
I think I found you by searching for cleaning and organizing tips – but it’s been a few years ago – so I’m not exactly sure. I’m currently catching up on all of your podcasts and loving the inspiration and encouragement that you give me! There are many times that I am actually saying out loud things like “I know exactly what you mean!” (It’s a good thing that I am in the car or decluttering my house when I do this!) Thank you for “getting me” like no one else and helping me to understand why “normal” ways of decluttering and cleaning don’t work for me!
Candace says
Congratulations on 9 years!
Patricia says
Congratulation on nine years blogging! The first blog I ever read was Abby Lawson’s “Just a girl and her blog” so I am fairly sure she is the one to recommend your site. You caught my attention and explained my dilemma with your observations on organizing versus decluttering. Your emotions, reactions, questions, and thoughts expressed what I had been feeling but unable to articulate. Around my home you are referred to as “My Mentor” — You know that lady that told me I was not crazy, alone, or just really weird. Thank you for all the courage it took to be vulnerable, to face your fears and most importantly to share it all.
Robin says
I’m listening to as I type. I have both of your books and I must say you have helped me. The clothes monster that resided in my home is no longer there. I am decluttering this week and want to say THANK YOU! I found you on Audible doing a desperate search for organizing and decluttering. No words can express how much both of your books have helped me. Thank you Dana.
Beth says
I found you and your book through BookBub. I read about you in the author section and came to your blog.
Donna Masciarelli says
I am brand new to you today! I was brought to you by another online friend who had great things to say about you and based on our conversations she suggested you! So here I am! Looking forward to learning!
Donna Torrado says
Would love an opportunity to win a set of your books. You have a way of helping to remove shame and begin the work and no pressure for perfection!
Donna Torrado says
Oops. I forget to include how I found you. I believe I was searching Pinterest for help organizing. I clicked on the link and came your site and signed up for your newsletter. I had other newsletters but they would send me 900 emails a day. I unsubscribed. I honestly look forward to your newsletters.
Thank you for all you have & continue to do.
Donna Torrado
Chris K. says
I’m afraid I don’t remember how I found you.
Nancy Lynne Lozano says
I found you on Pinterest while avoiding decluttering! LOL. Congrats on nine years! I look forward to picking your brain every week!
Jen B says
I’m pretty sure I found you through Money Saving Mom or Pinterest. Maybe 5 or 6 years ago when I stated following blogs…
Starting with the easy stuff first has help diffuse tense cleaning sessions with my kids. Thank you!!
Susie S. says
I found out about your blog after I checked out your book from the library: How to Manage Your Home without Losing Your Mind. I thought it was a good book so I decided to check out the blog. After that I signed up for the newsletter and started to listen to the podcasts. Thanks for all the information.
Crystal Young says
I probably found you through either a google search on decluttering or a Pinterest Post! So glad I did!
Lisa says
Thanks so much for being such an authentic inspiration! You’re the only one that truly reaches my slob brain.
Sara says
Not sure how I found you. I think it was through a friend… I am so happy that I did though! I have learned that it wont be done overnight and it won’t be “a forever fix”. I never knew where to start and you have given me great inspiration! Container concept, how to clean without making a bigger mess and to definitely start with visible messes (and not the linen closet). Thank you for your blog and I would love to get your book(s)!!
Tilda (that would be the english pronounciation of my name) says
Bummer that you don’t ship worldwide. I’d take an e-book instead?
I’m from Denmark and your podcast was recommended by a danish blogger just before summer. I’ve been hooked on your podcast since but haven’t yet read much of your blog or your books, but your approach has already helped me a lot.
For instance I’ve been taught to deal with the most difficult tasks first – then the rest of the tasks will feel so much easier. But that has just lead me down a road of heavy procrastination-issues.
Doing the easy stuff first and gain momentum to handle the difficult ones works so much better for me – and not just around my house, but in my professional life as well.
So thank you for that and a happy day to you! 🙂
Lynn Beumer says
I don’t remember how I found ou, likely because I click on anything titled “decluttering” You are amazing; your progress over 9 years is astounding.
Shirley Richardson-McCourt says
I found your decluttering book on my library’s ebook list and loaded it onto my Kindle. I read it while traveling to Washington, DC, and realized that I’d found something that might actually work for me. I would love to have my own set of your books that I could underline and highlight and use without having to renew them or give them up because others need them!
Tera says
How did I find you? I was looking for decluttering podcasts, and loved the name. Started listening (yours was the 2nd podcast to which I subscribed), and came to the blog from there. I’m so glad you’re still here 9 years later!
Lauren says
I think I found you several years ago through a comment that you left on one of the other blogs I read. Money Saving Mom? Anyway, I know we were kindred spirits from that point forward! I like listening to your podcasts while I work on decluttering.
Debbie says
I believe I came across your blog on Pinterest, as I was looking for ways to get my life organized. Your down to earth and practical advice helped me do better in my life. Thank you!
Katie says
I found your blog a few years ago and enjoyed it. Now I love to listen to your podcasts. Thank you for being real! I’m still in a very messy state but I need to go get started!
Amy says
I’m an audiobook listener, mostly romance but occasionally self-help. I stumbled across your latest book on Audible when it came out. After I listened to it, I immediately went and bought your previous audiobook. They are the most helpful de-cluttering books I’ve ever read/listened to. You get that we have kids and families and other obligations that prevent us from de-cluttering full time for 2 weeks straight. I love listening to your podcast too!
Carol says
It’s nice to read on organizing and cleaning without feeling I’m being judged. Great job!
Aimee G says
I found your first book at a Family Christian Book Store in January of 2017. I am forever grateful for the steps you provided me to get started and have hope. I find things better now and I enjoy the weekly podcasts!! Godspeed..
Amber Stabile says
Hi Dana!
Congratulations on 9 years! That means I’ve been reading your blog for somewhere between 4-5 years 🙂 I found you through a link on Pinterest when I searched decluttering. I can’t thank you enough for being relatable, and for showing that there’s a light at the end of the tunnel. It’s so much more helpful to receive advice from someone who understands how my brain works. My house is still far from perfect, but it is definitely better than it was when I started reading! I’ve learned so much from you (it’s ok to say no to hand-me-downs) and even learned some things just don’t work for our family (one laundry day). Instead, everyone in our house is responsible for their own laundry and has a designated day (youngest is 12 and we have been doing it this way for almost 2 years) and sheets/ towels get one of the empty days. Yes I have to harass/ remind my younger 2 to switch their stuff from washer to dryer, but it’s no one’s fault but their own if they run out of clean socks/ unders because they didn’t utilize their designated day. Anyway, thanks again for having the courage to share your story so others like us could feel normal and know we can conquer the clutter as well.
Thanks for all you’ve done and will continue to do! Amber
Charice Handford says
I discovered you on audible just about a week ago. I have listened to your book twice on my wonderful Amazon Alexa (at home and at work, while I worked). You have already changed my life! I have struggled with clutter for…well…basically my whole life. I will skip the details (maybe I’ll write my own book someday), but I will say I have tried so hard, and nothing worked until now. I found you after I listened to another decluttering book on Audible. It made some good points, but it did not spur me on and did not change my mindset. Not really. However, everything changed when I heard someone else talk I like I talked. Tell me thoughts she had that were just like some I’d had myself! Oh my gosh. The light bulbs. The relief. The steps are awesome! I already have then written on my fridge marker boards, and I have already been decluttering, even with a full schedule (single mom, working and raising two boys and taking care of her mother who now lives with her). Thank you from the bottom of my heart. This is only the beginning for me. Thank you for sharing your story, your heart, and helping me learn to deculutter at the speed of…real life : )
Lisa says
I heard interviewed by Kristi Clover. I bought your book, Decluttering at the Speed of Life, on Audible that day!
Beth says
I almost didn’t leave a comment, but I want to say THANK YOU for sharing your journey and encouraging all of us. You are a tremendous blessing to so many. I am not sure how I found your blog but it was after my last baby was born. I would read it while feeding the baby and would laugh til I cried. Here was someone who understands! My 4yo daughter would ask to see “the funny lady” every time she heard me laughing. She knew I must be reading your blog. I like to listen to your podcasts when I am doing a big cleaning or decluttering project. And a couple weeks ago I hauled away two large trunk loads of stuff. It was great! Thanks again, Nony.
Lenetta says
Frugal Friday at money saving mom! And I’m still around bc I’m not as far on the journey as you are.
Caitlyn Henderson says
Thank you for your wonderful, light-hearted approach to a serious topic. My SiL has hoarding tendencies complicated by depression and she has read many books, magazines and online articles to help her “organize”. Yours is the first one she has ever truly connected with and feels like she can move forward with her life.
Kylee says
I think I’ve been with you for 6 or 7 years now! I was looking for suggestions on how to teach my kids to clean. I purchased and printed the picture guide on how to clean and in what order. I used it with my boys to help teach them how to clean the bathroom. I’ve ordered your books before they were released! Thank you Dana, for your honest help. It makes me feel better to know there are others that struggle with this stuff!
Michelle says
Hi! I found your site on another FB decluttering page. Super excited for tips. Many thanks.
Kendra says
I’m pretty sure I found you on Pinterest when I was trying how to declutter my house and life.
Pamela says
Congratulations on your 9 year anniversary!! I found you through your book as I was browsing books on the subject- then I joined your mailing list. A lot brought me to the place I am in, and I don’t expect-or want- an overnight fix. I love your humor and insight, keep up the good work!!
Bridget Harrison says
I honestly don’t know how I found you. I have been following you for about 6-7 years!! I love your blog!!!
Thank you!!!
Lorry says
I found you completely by accident. A Facebook friend commented on a blog which made me investigate THAT blog and you were somehow linked to that blog. The funny thing about it is that I completely feel like I have found my sister from another mother on your blog where that original blog was something I ended up not even following. It was a blog about food or homeschooling. Yours was the real treasure though. You are like family to us. Thank you for sharing your struggles. It has made all the difference for us.
Rebekah says
I’m so glad I found your blog when I did. You are an inspiration as I am the biggest slob ever. It’s nice to know there’s hope for me
Cathy says
Found you from another blog. Money Saving Mom if memory serves me. 🙂
Cheryl says
Dana, thank you for writing a book that speaks my language. You are the first to affirm my “give away” “throw away” and NO “put away” way of decluttering. You put away right away because then you will know if it has a place in your house. Please keep writing and encouraging those of us who aren’t getting it until our 50’s. I am so thankful for audio books and ebooks through our library.
Monica W. says
Don’t quite remember how I found you, probably via Facebook
Cheryl says
Oh please pick me I need all the help I can get
Deb says
A friend recommended your book/blog to me and I’ve been following you ever since. I’m still working my way through listening to all the old podcasts. I like listening to the podcasts while cleaning and organizing. It encourages me to keep on. Thanks for being honest and letting us see your struggles. It helps so much to know that I’m not alone!
Deb Greuter says
I stumbled upon one of your blogs when I was searching for decluttering tips (I Do believe there was a Higher Power involved in my stumble that day, lol!) And you have been my saving grace ever since!
Cheryl says
I forgot to say how I found you. I either googled Decluttering it it was Pinterest
Jessica says
I’m new to this site, but I have already found so many things that have been helpful. Thank you!
Aimee says
I found you while in a Pinterest coma. I get on there and can’t get off. Your emails crack me up and remind me that living with 4 hoarders can be a pleasant experience.
Heidi says
I first heard about you on Tsh Oxenreider’s podcast. So glad I did!
Catt says
Hi Dana! There are so many comments on this post that it will be a freak accident of luck if I win, but I’ll take it! I think I found you a couple of years ago on Facebook. I love the fact that you are funny! Congratulations on 9 years of blogging!
Linda J says
I can’t recall exactly how I found you but it was likely Facebook (or maybe Pinterest). I’m still a work in progress but getting there. I do appreciate your advice and know that you are helping so many others like me. Thanks for being there!
Lisa says
You’ve come a long way! Keep going! You’ve helped many people and will help many more. You’ve helped me!
Jeanette says
I remember in 2010 searching for podcasts to listen to while I worked, get this ,cleaning dorm rooms & picking up after college students I didn’t have control of my house at all because I cleaned all day. My kids were saying ‘Mom it’s getting close to hoarding status in here’ I am slowly still getting through the clutter but at least I am keeping up with the dishes
Sandra says
I found you years ago when I was searching for help with my clutter problem. I have a two car garage and it had no car in it. Instead there was a pile of stuff as big as 2 cars. I also had a craft room that was so full that I couldn’t craft in in instead I had to use the kitchen table.I bought your 2 little ebooks and they changed my life more than any other declutter -organizing book ever has. I have been able to park my car in the garage for a few years now. My craft room is a place where I can work not just storage. I have a long ways to go but I just keep applying the advice from your books, and working at it. Thank you for being so transparent and helpful.
Rose says
Congrats! I have made progress but seems like my house looks more cluttered. I found you about a year and a half ago. Hard to remember if I found you from facebook or I googled to find help. I have been having health problems for the last few years. Most days I feel overwhelmed. Thanks for offering some help.
April says
I “found” you on Facebook (at least 4 years ago) because someone I know shared something you posted or commented on something or who-knows-how. But I know it was on Facebook. And I discovered you think like me…or I think like you. I don’t know. I’m just glad to know I’m not the only one!
Frances says
CONGRATS on your 9 years!
I have only followed you a little over half that time. You’ve really helped us non-Martha-Stewart types with your genuine, tried and tested, actual tips.
Your 4th paragraph boils it all down to the TRUTH about clutter, organization and cleanliness:
While there is a TREATMENT, there is no one-time CURE.
And the treatment is regularly DOING: dishes, laundry, picking up and getting rid of unneeded stuff. (With a side of having a place for everything)
THANKS for all your honesty, encouragement and practical advice.
Peace, Love, Blessings, Health and Happiness!
Gretchen says
I first found you as part of the Ultimate Homemaking Bundle. I was pulled in right away by the title, Don’t Grab a Floatie…Drain the Ocean, and read the book and have followed you ever since.
Becky says
I found you while searching for organizing podcasts. I’m so glad I did. My house is so much more organized just because I got rid of lots of stuff and do the dishes (most days).
Amy says
I think I found you because one of my friends (from another “slob” organization) shared one of your blog posts on Facebook. And yes, I did thank her for connecting us. 🙂 And yes, I still need to do my dishes …
Lorinda says
Long time reader. Not a great practicer. We did move and that helped. It may have all started with finding your post about cleaning a kid’s room or my looking at restarting another program and looking for other choices that didn’t include excessive emails. I did like the advice that your friend (without a couch) gave about only buying and using things in her house that she loved and not making due with whatever came her way.
Joann says
Way to go, girl!!!! You rock! I’m hoping for the paperback books, because e-books are just too easy to ignore. I need all the help I can get. 🙂
Erika says
I found you through another blog I am following about decluttering and organizing about 4 months ago. I am such a protagonist but your steps are really quite simple and now that a move is in the near future your steps are going to be becoming more routine than every! Thank you!!
Shelly says
I’ve been reading your blog for several years now, but I don’t remember where I first found you. I do like your advice & I like that you make me laugh! I have your first book, but I’d love to have all three. I just sent my firstborn off to college, so at least one room is staying clean! Now, if I can just get my homeschool room clean & decluttered, I’ll be in hog heaven!
Brandy Deterling says
Oh man! I honestly thought I was going to loose my mind and I believe I typed in the title of your book not knowing it was a book name!!!! So I ordered it for my iPad immediately!
I like organization, decluttering, and deep cleaning BUT my 4 boys, 3 dogs, 1 cat and 1 hubby don’t follow and keep things the way I like them! (Shocker huh?!?) So I realized reading your first book that I am a project person and that I had to stop thinking someone else was going to do it! I realized I had to let go of who I wanted to be and embrace this messy, blessed life! Thanks for all the laughs along the way! I talk about you like we are BFFs 🤣
TRINA says
I found you through a Facebook friend’s comment and decided to subscribe to your newsletter. I enjoy your past blog posts!
Dale says
I found you by googling how to declutter a closet. That sent me to some sites and one was yours. I started reading and have been at it since then (before your first book). I thought you sounded like my daughter who has never understood anything at all about organizing so I bought all of your books for her. Surprisingly I found that your advice helped me too! Thanks for helping on this never ending quest for order. I appreciate your openness, honesty, and entertaining advice.
Sarah says
I heard about you from Cas (from Clutterbug) on one of her YouTube videos. She mentioned your first book as an inspiration. After I read it from the library and loved it, I bought the Kindle version so I can read it again and again (I think I’ve read it 4 times now). I have told many people about you (and bought your second book too, of course!). You have changed many lives for the better, including mine!
Deanna Prather says
I got Decluttering at the Speed of Life on kindle/ audible after being introduced to you through the ultimate homemaking bundle 2018. I felt instant connection. Our names are only a couple letters off. We both worked in theatre. We both are christian and devoted to our families. But I too wanted to strike a match and watch it all burn. But I’ve been working the steps for about 2 weeks. 3 year old loves saying bye bye to things because she’s already enjoying the larger areas to play in. Hubby has already jumped on board and did a whole bunch of kitchen Duh’s whole I was at work today. We have a long road to sanity but there’s already visible progress and everyone got on board much quicker than anything else i’ve tried!
LINDA says
I’ve only been reading your blog a few short months after seeing a pin on Pinterest but your advice has already helped make a huge impact in my home! I’m a FlyLady failure but I fully intend to be a winner at deslobification! Just over the summer I eliminated 6-10 yard size garbage bags of clothing/bedding/curtains, at least 4 large boxes of kitchen items, a large box of shoes with another box being filled probably today! Right now I have 5 large EMPTY storage totes sitting in my t.v. room which to me symbolizes a series of small successes! And I am giving you the credit for starting me on this journey! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!
Selina says
I’m pretty sure I found you by googling “burn your house down and start over” (just kidding). I was trying to find advice on cleaning schedules or something. I LOVE reading and hearing your thoughts on what needs to be done. My big take away all the time is just do SOMETHING! Even a little makes a difference. Thank you for being honest-all. the. time.
Sherrie says
LOVE your blog … ohhh can I relate, I’m still the slob 🙁 My older brother was a neat freak and my older sister is also – the gene totally missed me !!!
Kim Shelley says
I am a librarian. I read every book about organizing/minimizing/downsizing that comes into the library. I just finished your book “Decluttering at the Speed of Life.” FiNALLY some real advice about those darn craft areas! My quilting fabric is getting under control – and in containers. I don’t have to tell you it’s been a lot of work…but it is happening. Thanks for helping st the speed of MY life.
Martha says
Actually I typed ‘a’ into the url box and you came up! I need to read it all and perhaps even do it all! I started a slob blog years ago called piles of stuff. I didn’t do much with it.
Go you!
Joanna says
Congratulations on 9 years! I know I found you using a Google search about 5 years ago, and it was one of those full sentence searches like “How do I stop being a complete slob?” or something equally desperate.
Lori R says
Happy 9th Anniversary! I found you through another blog that was raving over your book!
Sarah says
Congratulations, Dana, and thanks for your great insights and ideas. I found you through one of my daughters, who had posted a link to one of your blog posts on her Facebook page. Both my girls are doing a great job implementing your principles into their homes … and are trying to help me. 🙂 I am learning and slowly putting some things into practice. I very much appreciate the way you encourage without denigrating those of us who choose to do some things differently from you, such as laundry. I have pretty much called a halt to purchasing stuff (at least me … can’t always speak for others in my household), but we are currently cleaning out the home of a family member who has passed away, and we have acquired more stuff that way. But I am trying not to keep more than I NEED. I am also thankful for your Christian values and help in applying biblical/godly principles to household situations. As far as I’m concerned, you could speak more openly about them. <3
Liz says
I read organizing books for fun (I know; I need a life). My house is organized but I have too much stuff in it. I found your book on amazon and once I started reading it, the light bulbs went off! I am living above my clutter threshold! Love your advice. Keep the ideas coming!
Emily says
I found you when I searched “decluttering inspiration podcast” and you were right there next to The Minimalists. I felt like someone finally described the way my brain works and the way I have lived. I too hope that I can turn a new leaf and get it under control. Here’s my current struggle: I have been getting all this done at night and staying up late occasionally doing extra, but then I have nothing left. I’m tired but satisfied and want to sleep, but then my husband doesn’t and wants my attention. Geez! Isn’t the cleaning making you happy enough? Not that you have the answer to this problem but…
Thanks for all the “duh!”s.
Katie says
I am brand-new to your site! I found you on Pinterest somehow the other day when I was desperately looking for help because our house was an absolute wreck (and I may or may not have been procrastinating…).
I appreciate your honesty. It makes me feel like I’m not a failure. I just need help!
Hanna b says
You were recommended on another website I read. I read your whole blog from
Beginning till end. It’s great!
Anna says
A friend recommended your podcasts. So glad she did!
Nancy Rivers says
Your podcasts are so much fun! I listen while cleaning and cooking! Thanks!