My Favorite Way to Avoid Clutter Guilt

No script today. You can totally do this one without even opening your mouth.

Just take the box of clutter, stick it in your trunk, and drive over to the nearest donation place.

Basically, it’s the Declutter Now, Answer/Avoid Questions Later approach.

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I have had WAY too much fun doing these videos this week. Y’all have helped make it fun with your responses, but the very best moment was when my oh-so-cool almost-thirteen-year-old laughed out loud (several times!) when I made him watch them.

I’m brainstorming another video series for later this fall . . .

If you can’t bring yourself to just donate without letting the gifter/guilter know first, check out my other posts from this week with strategies to help you move past that point of paralysis:

Help! Please Save Me From My Stuff!!

It’s Not You, It’s Me

The Playing Dumb Approach

When All Else Fails (If Snark Is Your Style . . . )

And here’s a podcast about Clutter Guilt.

--Nony
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When All Else Fails (If Snark Is Your Style . . . )

 

When All Else Fails - Clutter Guilt Conversations (with videos!) at ASlobComesClean.com

I’m kind of questioning whether I should include this one in my series of Clutter Guilt Conversations this week.

It’s not my goal to offend the ba-jillion well-meaning people who’ve said stuff like this to me.

OK. Fine. I’ll share.

This is my favorite response when people just WON’T stop. When they insist they can solve all my problems with their two minutes of life-changing advice.

But even though I think this inside my head, I only say it out loud to certain people.

Warning: This doesn’t work for all personality types. Don’t use it with someone who can’t laugh about it with you later. Be ready for them to be mad at you.

When someone doesn’t know me, I just smile and change the subject. Like, interrupt them mid-judgmental-sentence and ask where they get their hair cut.

Really. And that is a MUCH better option, people. Much better.

But those who know me know to expect things like this to come out of my mouth. So here goes:

(Don’t watch it if you’ll be disappointed in me for NOT taking the high road on this one.)

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Other Person: Blah, blah blah . . . you know you really should . . . I have just never understood why anyone would want their house to be that messy . . . so on and so forth

Me: Wow. I don’t have the time right now since I’m decluttering, but someday, I want us to sit down and talk so you can tell me exactly how it feels to be perfect.

 

Here are my other conversations. They’re much more helpful:

Help! Please Save Me From My Stuff!!

It’s Not You, It’s Me

The Playing Dumb Approach

Don’t forget about this amazing giveaway from Extra Space Storage. It ends TONIGHT! Hopefully, you’ll read this in time to declutter something (your fridge, a cabinet, a closet, whatever!) and enter the giveaway!! Go here for the rules and to find out how to enter!

--Nony
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040 Decluttering Momentum Podcast

Podcast #40 from ASlobComesClean.com - Decluttering Momentum

 

Decluttering momentum is a real thing. In this podcast, I talk about how I developed my own momentum that has truly changed my perspective on clutter.

See all my podcasts here.

See my recent video series on my Videos Pinterest Board.

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