Stopped by Fear (Of Avocados, Legos, Cutesy Baskets, Etc.)

I used to suffer from a fear of avocados.

I loved them, and would be happy with a family-sized serving of guacamole all to myself, but I wouldn’t buy avocados in the store.

See, I did once.  It was early in marriage, and I was proud of myself for putting Guacamole-from-Scratch on our menu for the night.

But I didn’t know what I was doing. I grabbed the prettiest, shiniest avocados I could find.  I took them home and made dinner (I have no idea what it was), and attempted to cut the avocados.

And cutting them was so much more difficult than I thought it would be.

And we couldn’t eat them.  They wouldn’t mash up into guacamole, and the slices/chunks I whacked out of them were inedible.

So I went on strike.  I didn’t buy another avocado for the next 12 years.

I would buy packages of pre-made guacamole when it was on sale AND I had a coupon, but otherwise we just learned to live without guacamole as part of our Tex-Mex meals.

And we eat a lot of Tex-Mex meals.

Anyway, last year on our first (and next-to-last) liver cleanse when we ate only fruits and veggies for two weeks, I mustered up some  courage and asked a little old lady in the grocery store to help me learn how to choose a good avocado.

She was very helpful, and I came home and made perfect guacamole.

And now . . . I buy them all the time.  Fresh, homemade guacamole is often my lunch.

And I wonder why I avoided them for all those years.

It’s the same with other things around here.  I avoid toys-with-teeny-tiny-parts because we’ve never found an effective way to keep them under control.  I won’t let myself near the cutesy-basket-aisle because I start having flashbacks of failed organizing projects of the past.

Thankfully, none of my kids seem to be obsessed with toys that have teeny-tiny-parts, and our home is ever-so-much more organized due to the fact that I let myself JUST declutter.

But maybe at some point, I should try again to use baskets to organize.  Maybe I shouldn’t accidentally misplace every toy-with-teeny-tiny-parts that enters our home.

Maybe I could try one basket for the kitchen counter’s never-ending parade of vitamins.

Maybe.

 

How to Keep Up with Emailed Coupons

I love my iPhone.

I knew I would, I just didn’t know how much.  It hasn’t solved all my problems, but it sure does help with a lot of things!

One of the things I love is that I don’t have to print out (and then lose or forget) emailed coupons. 

(Just to be clear, I’m not talking about printable grocery coupons.  I haven’t used those in a while, but I don’t know of any option other than printing them.)

I’m talking about the kind you get from restaurants and retailers when you’re on their email lists.  Did you know that most companies will let you show them the coupon on your phone?  They can even scan a barcode on it!

I get so excited when I get an email with a buy-one-get-one or kids-eat-free coupon.

I’m so happy when I remember that coupon while we’re out.

I get so frustrated when it takes me forever to pull up the email by searching on my phone.

I get a lot of email.  I’m not very good about deleting.  An iPhone only initially searches through the most recent emails.  So . . . sometimes it takes me a while to search for a specific email I got three weeks ago.

I made a folder for “Coupons” and when I remember, I file the email right away in that folder so it’s ultra-easy to find when we need it.

Yay for avoiding paper waste!  Yay for one less thing to lose!!!

 

Do you have a smartphone?  What’s your favorite thing about it?

 

One last plug for the January intro price on my new e-book, Drowning in Clutter? (Don’t Grab a Floatie . . . Drain the Ocean!)

 

 

 

Organization Products (And Why They Scare Me)

I have a phobia of organizing products.

It was a late-onset phobia that developed in my mid-thirties.  Right around the same time that my delusions that I would become organized once I became a true grown-up started to reveal themselves as . . . delusions.

Y’know.  Since I was in my mid-thirties and could no longer deny that I was a grown up. 

I had purchased (and been gifted by my well-meaning mother) many an organizing product.  Mostly . . . storage tubs. 

Storage tubs that I over-filled with random stuff to be dealt with later.

Storage tubs that over-filled my closets and bedroom and garage with . . . random stuff to be dealt with later. 

Random stuff that I never dealt with later.

Soooo.  As I’ve worked to declutter and develop decluttering methods that make a real impact on our home (instead of just enabling my love of procrastination), I’ve focused on dealing with each individual item instead of packing it away for future frustration.

That has worked exceedingly well for me.

But . . . I found that even when I actually needed a storage bin, I was still rather phobic.  (Which doesn’t make sense, but if I call it a phobia it doesn’t have to make sense, right?)

When I worked on the Master Bedroom Saga decluttering project, I got to the point where I knew that I needed a new organizing solution for storing out-of-season clothes.

Instead of calling it a “new” solution, perhaps I should just call it a solution. 

Because what I had been doing hadn’t been working. 

It was a nice thought to hide extra clothes inside a table-that’s-not-really-a-table, but they were only hidden until a frantic search for something-or-other left the table’s secret life exposed.  And as someone who tends to leave off the last step of any given task . . . the mess that resulted usually stuck around for a while.

I’ve blogged about this frustrating should-work-but-doesn’t storage solution before, so if you’re one of the people who suggested I give up on it . . . go ahead and tell me you told me so.

With much fear inside my Slob Heart, I shelled out the money for some tubs.  Clear tubs.  Clear tubs with lids.

Three.

For my three kids.

I put each child’s off-season clothing into his/her own tub and then (eventually) put his/her tub in his/her closet.  In his/her room.

Not my room.

And that’s one less constant source of disaster in my room.

We’ll see how it works in their rooms.  If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the three years of my deslobification process, it’s that even though not all organizing solutions are going to work, it’s still okay to give them a shotYou I can always try a new way later.

But even if this solution doesn’t work perfectly in their rooms, it’s a sure-thing that it will improve mine.

Disclaimer(s):

Disclaimer #1: I put (eventually) in the paragraph above where I said I put the tubs in the kids’ closets.  At the point when I typed that, those tubs were still sitting just outside my laundry room where they’d been hidden during the two home group meetings we’d had since I filled them. But now, they really are in the closets.  Because I just put them there.  Blogging motivates doing.  It’s my plan and it’s working.

Disclaimer #2: While I do acknowledge that you-were-right-and-I-was-wrong on the whole “Why do you still have clothes stored inside that table-that’s-not-really-a-table?” argument, I’m not ready to acquiesce to those who question the need to store off-season clothing at all.  In fact, while I love having you here as readers . . . I do question your need for your own deslobification process. If one year’s worth of clothing truly doesn’t over-fill a closet and you have the presence of mind to be fully aware of what your children are wearing at any given moment . . . I admire your Not-a-Slob Brain.  I’d love to be at that point.  But I’m not.

Disclaimer #3: That link to clear plastic storage containers?  It’s my affiliate link and I get a teeny percentage of anything that you purchase on Amazon after you get there by clicking that link.

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