Teaching Kids to do Laundry – (Laundry Day Lesson Plan)

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I shared earlier this week that I’m in survival mode.  It’s VBS week combined with get-ready-to-fly-across-the-country-with-three-kids week.

Waaaahhhhhh!!!!

So, since I don’t have any progress to report, I’ll share my Laundry Day Lesson Plan from Teaching Kids to Clean, my new e-book that’s free right now!

Laundry Day Lesson Plan

Step One: Gather and Sort

We sort all of our dirty clothes into piles in the hallway outside our laundry room.  When first teaching my children to sort laundry, I started the piles so that the kids only had to match the remaining clothes to their proper pile.

Until you see that your kids can do this on their own, it’s a good idea to work alongside them and be there to answer the inevitable questions about which colors qualify as darks.

Step Two: Wash and Dry

This is the most important step for Mama to supervise.  You are one thousand-ba-jillion times more likely to notice the red sock that has attached itself to the pile of whites.  You know which items should not go in the dryer and you know where and how to hang them to dry.

Some things require judgment calls, and the ability to make a judgment call comes from experience.  You have the experience, and you’re working hard to help your children gain that same experience so they’ll be prepared to make judgment calls one day.

While I fully trust my kids to sort clothes because they have two years of experience, I’ll be eagle-eye-watching the actual washing and drying process this summer.

Perhaps next summer I’ll be able to lie in bed and eat ice-cream all day on Laundry Day . . .

Perhaps.

Step Three: Fold and Put Away

Folding and putting away is a great group project.  Our schedule some days dictates that we pile the clean laundry on the couch and have an end-of-day folding session.  I’m always amazed at how quickly we can flatten Laundry Mountain when we tackle it as a group.

I’ve found it best, though, to fold and put away each load as it comes out of the dryer.  One child can be assigned the task of emptying the contents of the dryer into a laundry basket, one can move the clean-but-wet clothes from the washer to the dryer, and another can load the washing machine with another load of dirty clothes.

This system causes some traffic jams in the laundry room, but works well for us since it means everyone has a job to jump up and do each time the dryer’s buzzer goes off.  For some families, it might work better to have a rotation, letting one person do all of those tasks.

Folding together is key.  This allows you to teach folding tricks, help your children learn which items are hung vs. folded, and be sure the right clothes get into the right drawers.

I’ve found that my kids do best when I give each child a small stack of clothes that all get put away together in one place.  For example, they run a stack of ONLY UNDIES to their room to put them directly in the UNDIE DRAWER.  This helps (though there are no guarantees) it to be more likely there won’t be t-shirts in the sock drawer and vice-versa.

I’d love to live vicariously and  hear about your progress for the week!!

“He Gets Me”

The fact that my husband “gets” me has always been one of my favorite things about him.  And considering that my sense of humor sometimes produces blank stares and/or courtesy laughs when unleashed on the general public, that means a lot.

Yesterday was our thirteenth wedding anniversary.  Every year, on (or around) our anniversary, we write in a journal.   We started it on our first wedding anniversary, and it’s fun to read what we’ve written in previous years.  We have various lists where we record places we traveled, funny things that happened, difficult things, etc.

The first category each year is “things we’ve learned about each other.”  On Anniversary #1, the list was several pages long.  Now . . . it’s more difficult to think of new things we’ve learned.

Which means we also get more philosophical than the “he drinks his coffee black” type revelations of the first year.

Last year, one of his answers was my very favorite ever.  He said, “I’ve finally realized you’re not messy on purpose.  You really do try hard.  It’s just how your brain works.”

Or something like that.  (I do NOT feel like going to dig out the journal right now.)

Anyway, however he said it was exactly how I needed to hear it.  It all boils down to the fact that he gets me.  He has always been nice about my messiness and supportive of my quirks, but to know that he understands (after twelve years of marriage and two years of soul-baring-blogging) . . . makes me love him even more.

 

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Keeping the Dining Room Under Control

Today the Room by Room girls and I are talking about the Dining Room.

For me, it’s the VERY first thing you see when you walk through my front door.  Which is great when it’s clean.

And not-so-great when it’s not.

And without being EXTREMELY intentional . . . it doesn’t stay clean.  I mean, it’s a room that basically just contains one big flat surface.

Right where we enter the house or bring in the mail or absent-mindedly cross through to the kitchen.

When that big, wonderful, flat surface isn’t clean/clear, it doesn’t matter how hard I’ve worked on the rest of the house.

A clutter-filled first impression equals a bad first impression of my house as a whole. 

I don’t have this mastered yet by any means, but I have figured out the best way to keep this room looking nice.

Use it.

Yes.  It’s that simple.

My house isn’t like the ones in Victorian novels where the parlor was off-limits to the kids so it always stayed nice for guests.  My kids have this strange notion that my house is also their house and (other than knowing they are to never EVER allow anyone into the master bedroom) . . . they play everywhere in it.  And someone else who lives here tends to shuck her HOT-AND-STIFLING-AND-UNBEARABLE jeans the minute she gets in from church.  And  sometimes she leaves them right there in the middle of the DINING ROOM FLOOR.

OK fine. It’s actually me that does that.

Anyway, the best way to keep the dining room from getting to a three-hours-of-decluttering-required state is to use it.  Regularly.  Play a board game as a family.  Invite a friend or two over for dinner so we need more room than we have in our breakfast room. Or just eat a regular old weekday meal in there.

Basically, live in it.

Here’s the thing.  One of my favorite Pre-Blog Delusions was that clutter gave my home a “lived-in” look.

But there’s a fine line between “lived-in” and “can’t-be-lived-in-because-there’s-nowhere-to-sit-down” clutter.

And the best way to keep it “lived-in” instead of “un-livable-innable” is to live in it.

Of all the rooms in my home, the one that looks the best the most often is . . . the living room. Because we live in there.  As a family.  It’s where we sit.  Where we hang out.  Where we have conversations.

It’s not safe from my slob tendencies. (Nothing is.)  But because we live in there the most, we pick-up in there the most, and since we pick-up in there the most, it’s always easiest and quickest to pick up.

A tame cycle.  (As opposed to a vicious one.)

Make sense?

When we purposefully take advantage of the dining room as a space that’s perfect for games and gatherings, we also purposefully clear the small amounts of mail and unfinished projects off regularly.  And clearing small amounts regularly prevents the need to get out the shovel and spend three hours doing disaster control every few months.

What spaces do you need to live in more?

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Check out other posts about the dining room from these blogging buds:

Christine from I Dream of Clean is writing about clearing off the dining room table.

Taylor from Stain-Removal 101 is writing about polishing silver.

Jami from An Oregon Cottage is showing before and afters of her dining room.  (And her stuff is always SOOOO gorgeous!)

Lauren from Mama’s Laundry Talk is sharing instructions on washing table linens.

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